I love spyderco. Probably my favorite company. They don't seem like gentleman's folders though. I would look a t CRKT, Kershaw and maybe the spyderco delica 4 with stainless handles. For a gentleman's folder, I look for something around 3 inchs, flat grind, with a drop point/modified drop point and stainless steel/titanium/or wood scales. The sebenza is perfect. My cousin owns one. But they're too expensive for me. My most expensive knife is my paramilitary 2. But I got it for 90 bucks. So if one was you, I think the BEST choice would be the CRKT Drifter with stainless steel handle. Very simple, attractive, and sleek.