Home Again

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Hello, everybody! I finally found my way home after about a month afield. My God, what a time I have had!

I'll start out by saying that the cancer checkup was unremarkable. Only the second visit, so no pattern yet and it's too soon for my medicine to have taken affect. So, no news there. Which is better than bad news, I guess! :o

Then, the day after I got home from that, I went to Thailand. I guess I'll begin with the flight. All the flights went well, but a combined 25 hours in the air getting there was a little tiring. But get there we did, in the middle of the night.

After that, our days genrally consisted of eating, meeting my girlfriend's family, sightseeing, and absorbing the Bangkok culture. Needless to say, it was rather different from the small town midwest! That said, nearly everyone we met was really very kind. This trip reaffirmed my faith in people. Given, vendors in markets charged me about 10 times what they charged Thai people, but that is to be expected. I speak a little Thai, and I feel that that probably helped me quite a lot.

We spent 4 days on the vacation island of Phuket. It was off-season, so everything was pretty cheap and not too crowded. You'd never know that a tsunami had hit there a few years ago. Completely rebuilt. It was a little unnerving, though, to be driving along a road and pass dozens of "Tsunami Evacuation Route" signs and the even more ominous signs that say "Now entering Tsunami Hazard Zone". But the sirens never went off and the island was basically relaxation incarnate compared to the hustle-bustle of Bangkok. On our last day, we went to get foot massages at this beautiful spa, about 20 yards from the shore, in outdoor huts. For about $10! It was amazing. :)

After that, we returned to Bangkok. As you may remember, the real reason for the trip was that my girlfriend's grandfather died and we were to attend his cremation. He was rather high-ranking in Thai society, so the events surrounding his cremation were very ceremonial and important. In the days leading up to the ceremony, we attended several services, in which we gave food to monks to make merit on his behalf. I really don't understand the significance of everything I witnessed, but I know that it was a mixture of buddhist and state rites. The two seemed to be intimately intertwined in Thailand.

The actual cremation was a beautiful and moving ceremony. It started indoors with monks chanting. Next, the entire group marched around a special temple 3 times, while a traditional thai band played and marched at the fore. Then, the flame was brought by military officers from the palace of the king. The group laid wood shavings shaped like flowers on a ceremonial pyre, while the real casket was placed in a modern crematorium.

I'll make a photobucket account of all of this sometime, so you can all see. Words don't do it justice. Luckily, I took about 1.5 gigabytes of pictures and video. I'll post that as soon as I make it.

If any of you get a chance to go to Thailand, I would highly recommend it. The people are great, the food is great, and the culture is great. As I said, it was a very different place from America. But it was a wonderful experience and I got to see a a proud nation that is rich in history and culture. I am very fortunate to have gone there and seen it from an insider's perspective.

Chris
 
Four days of Phuket is probably enough for anyone.

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Did you get to see any snakes?

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You're full of life, Nam, if envy were a factor I'd envy you, but as it is, I'm glad you're around.


munk
 
Oh, and how could I forget cutlery?! I brought some money to try to look for interesting knives, but it turns out I didn't need it. Word spread among my girlfriend's relatives that I was looking for cutlery, and it turns out that some of them collected cutlery as well. Her grandfather's brother and I talked about knives for about an hour one night, and at the end of the evening, he gave me a handmade, southern Thai thowing axe. Think Thai Tomahawk. I'll post pics soon!

Well, he didn't exactly give it to me. It is Thai custom that to give a person sharp things would create bad blood between the two. So, when somebody gives you something like this, you have to give them 1 Baht in return. (about 40 Baht = $1) So, it was a very good purchase!

Then, my girlfriend's grandfather who is still alive gave me the real clincher: A pair antique Thai swords. They are beautiful, old, and real. He said he is old and has no use for them anymore, so he "sold" them to me for 1 Baht each. I was amazed. That these people who just met me could be so kind really impressed me. You don't forget that kind of kindness.

Well, I'll work on posting those pics. 'Till then, I'll say that it's good to be back home.

Glad to be back,

Chris
 
It's important to be armed when on the Isle of Phuket. Life's cheap on Phuket.




munk
 
Chris, what an amazing trip! Can't wait to see some pictures of your trip. Thanks for sharing with us. :thumbup:

Steve
 
Here are the photos of the sharp things!

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Enjoy!

Chris

PS: Sorry about the sideways images. Don't know why it's doing that!

Chris
 
That sounds awesome Chris. Great read. Can't wait to see the pictures. My Navy buddy said Thialand was his favorite stop. Mostly because he said they had the prettiest girls in Asia. I bet the rest of the scenery is beautiful too. What an honor to be able to witness that ceremony. Just great. Welcome home too. Pics soon please.
 
Sounds like a truly fantastic trip! Thank you so much for sharing! It gives us non-adventurous homebody types something to dream about.:D

I'm very envious of the blades that made it back with you. Not only are they beautiful, but the sentimental value must be incredible.

I'm glad you had a great trip, and made it back safely.
 
Hey Chris?

The swords are beautiful, the axe looks really rugged, and the trip sounds marvelous...

but, to me, the most impressive element of your posts is you.


Be well and safe.
 
Thanks, guys. As I said, it was amazing, but I'm glad to be home. And by that, I mean both home and the Cantina. You guys are great. :)

Chris
 
Wow, very cool. Have I mentioned that I really like dha's(your swords)? There is just something about a dha that makes me grin, especially if I'm holding one. Definitely a good score.
 
Sounds like quite an adventure, thanks for sharing with us. At a little Thai restaurant I like to eat at, they've got a picture hanging on the wall of one of the Thai royal family members decked out in traditional garb. He's wearing a sword and scabbard of the exact shape and configuration of the two you have. However, since the sword in the picture is sheathed in it's scabbard, I've long wondered what the blade looked like. Thanks to you, now I know. :D

Sarge
 
Welcome home Chris:)

And many thanks for sharing pictures of your new blades---and the great stories that came with them! Those will be blades you'll be telling your grandkids stories about for sure.
 
Welcome home Chris! It's really wonderful that you got too make such a wonderful journey even if the reason was primarily a funeral service. I'm sure that at least to some folks in Thailand the face of the "Ugly American" isn't so ugly anymore thanks to you.:thumbup: :cool:

Those are all very beautiful examples of the cutlery arts and the Thai's custom of "selling the blade" is the same as my people's who follow the traditional ways.:D The one sword appears too have some spots on it, are they rust or some other discoloration?
And would you please post the spec's on your newly aquired pieces? Spec's would go a long way with the pictures so that we could all get a better idea of how they feel methinks.:thumbup: :D :cool:
 
Those crossed swords look like they mean business . The axe looks like the handle is inserted from underneath . It must be very solid to be thrown ?
Great pics . I,m glad you are doing well .
 
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