Home for the Holidays

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Mr. Hiday was drafted into the Army during WWII. He was a Lineman with the 324th Infantry. After the war he came home to his wife in Indiana, went back to work with a division of GM, raised his son & daughter, and retired.

Bruce welcomed me into his family when I married his granddaughter. As I had no more surviving grandparents he told me, if I wanted, I could call him Grandpa - I did. He was one of the kindest, most giving people I had ever met. Whenever I had a health issue he would always ask for regular updates on me, even more than some of my own family. A few Christmases ago, while talking to him about the M1 Carbine I'd bought, he started telling me some stories of his time in WWII. I was the 1st person he had told these stories too, my Mother-In-Law said she'd not even known what Unit he was with.

Maybe it was his familiarity with the TL-29, but I'd noticed that most of his pocketknives were 2-blade Jacks of one kind or another. As my boys had gotten older he'd given over quite a few of his pocketknives to me in keeping for them. One Kabar Peanut/Jack is especially nice - Jigged Brown Delrin handles with a Clip main & pen blade, both with a beautiful patina to them. One Serpentine Jack shows heavy use, tip of the Clip blade had a slight bend to it - probably used to pry with. My youngest son used it this year to earn his Whittling Chip in Cub Scouts. Can't tell what make it is as there are no markings or they got worn away. One of the few non-Jack patterns is a SAK Classic type pocketknife made by Bonsa. Stainless scales that have a light checkering to them, 2 pen blades on 1 side & scissors on the other.

Sadly his health started to decline a few years ago & he had a stroke. While the In-laws were on their way to pick him up for Christmas this year he suffered another stroke. When they got there he was in the hospital in varying states of responsiveness. Tests showed the outcome was only a matter of time. Before they could transfer him to Hospice Care he passed away this Tuesday in his sleep. My Mother-In-Law said he looked at peace. He gave his daughter one last Christmas together. He was buried with Military Honors earlier this morning. Sadly I could not be there, but my wife & 2 boys made the trip along with her sister and her 2 daughters. Before my wife left I gave her an old USA Made Schrade 33OT to place in his pocket. I think he would of liked it.

I am honored to have known such a man. I am very thankful that my boys, his Great Grandsons, got to know him. I'm going to miss him. That said, he survived WWII, got to see his Great Grandkids, and now he's back home with his Wife & Son.
 
My condolences to you and your family.
 
Sounds like he welcomed you into his family, and got a good grandson in return!
What a wonderful society we have in North America!
 
That was a fine tribute to a good man. My condolences.
 
I'm very sad for you and your family's loss. Great gesture sending the gentleman off with a knife in his pocket. If there's whittling in Heaven he'll be all set.

I read someplace that we're loosing 5,000 WW2 vets a day. That's a tragic loss for a generation that did so much. Too many of their stories go untold.

Carl.
 
My condolences, too! It´s always hard to loose a family member. The eternal light may light him! Amen

I lost my grandpa about six years ago, I still miss him.

Andi
 
Thanks for the read! He sounds like he was a great man. My condolences to you and your family! May God comfort you in these times of adversity.
 
Thank you for sharing this, and my condolences. My Paupa would have been 94 a few days ago. I've been thinking about him quite a bit. He taught me how to fish. He was always patient with me and tried to understand me, even when I did things he had trouble understanding. He lived long enough to meet my wife and know that he had a granddaughter. Near the end, I asked him to tell me about WWII - something he never spoke of. I wrote a lightly fictionalized account of the stories, recreating a world for him - I think that was the only time I saw him cry. I also wrote a story about my Nana who passed a few years before he did. He never failed to mention how much it meant to him. He was a brave man...lost a grown son to suicide and didn't let it break him. I miss him. It sounds like we were both pretty lucky.
 
Sorry to hear it Halfneck. Sounds like he was a hero most deserving of full military honors.

-- Mark
 
Like my father says about my mothers mother, "she's the only mom I've got left right now".

Godspeed to your grandfather.
 
This thread has touched something inside of me.
I missed out on a loving upbringing by my parents and especially my Grandfather - Opa a staunch old Dutchman, and indeed my Mum was the product of him.
I never had the Poppa I always yearned to have....... a loving - kind Pop that I could hang out with and talk to, do stuff together, it was never to be, as my only Grandfather was a very nasty, mean man. I tried to get him to get to know my children when he was in a home-so he could possibly change and see what beautiful treasures he had in his life ( my two girls - his great grandchildren )- but he didnt want to know, so Halfneck....you are more lucky than you know my friend ....you have shared something pretty darned special, and thats with you always, and I very much envy you for having this....you are indeed a lucky man.
Me...I have to wait now so I can be that Poppa that I always wanted...to my girls wee kiddies, (hopefully they will wait a while :D ), but I started off my special relationship with my girls the moment my eldest girl was born-still attached to Mum...I held her in my hands and promised her we would have something so different and neat....20 years on, we are still the best of friends.
So in the end of your Grandads life he has given you a gift that you can indeed pass on.
 
WOW does this ever make me miss my Papaw and Grandaddy. It seems like they have been gone for so long now, yet it also seems like yesterday that one or the other of them was teaching me how something I would carry with me the rest of my life. I lost my Father in law 2 years ago and your relation ship with your "Grandpa" reminds me of the one I had with my Father in law. I have his fathers pocket watch and a small two bladed Queen knife on my mantle to remind me of what good men there are in the world, and to remind me to keep the faith and fill those shoes.

Halfneck, may your God bless and keep you and yours.



As long as you are remembered, your never realy gone!
 
Thanks for sharing, My thoughts go out to your Grandpa.
I would give up every possession of mine to get 10 more minutes to talk with my grandfather.
 
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