Ive had some interesting experiences lately with buyers in Hong Kong posing as US buyers. By posing, I mean that they indicate either in emails or, actually in one case, in the Location field in their posts, that they are in the US.
My first such experience was with a buyer who listed his location as Portland, OR. He negotiated aggressively to get me to reduce my price, and I finally brought it down from $220 to $215. When we switched from PM to emails, I noticed oriental characters appearing in his email besides the English words. He said hed take the knife, but when he PayPaled funds, the deduction for PayPals fee was 4%, not 3%. Since it was only a difference of about $2 on the $215, I let it go, but when I went to print a USPS printing label through PayPal, there was no confirmed address. I emailed him about it, and he replied with an address in Portland with two zip codes. I asked why the two zip codes, and he said because it was a freight forwarding company in Portland, OR that forwarded mail to Hong Kong, and it has become so big that it has its own zip code. However, only USPS seems to know about its zip code designation, so if I shipped by UPS or other I should use the other, more general zip code.
I informed him at that point that I would not be responsible for shipping or insurance under those circumstances, and that I would either refund his money or he could take his chances with shipping, with no liability to me. He opted to take the deal, no liability to me. I shipped, and never heard from him againno got the knife, no feedback, no nothing. Doesnt answer my emails.
I had a similar situation arise with a buyer "on the east coast (US)". That fellow was a little more forthcoming, also with Chinese characters in his email, but did say up front that I would be shipping to a US address and that the knife would be forwarded to him abroad. His PayPal fee was the standard 3%--I dont know why the difference between his PP% and the other buyers. I made the same deal, agreeing to ship with no liability to me, and again, never heard from him after I shipped the knife.
Third time up (all 3 over the course of the last six weeks), I received a PM from someone asking if I had Busse knives for sale--Id recently sold a few. I said I might, and he asked for photos. I sent one I had on file, and when he replied with his email asking for more photos, I saw the Chinese characters in the heading. By this time, I had become accustomed to saying up front in all communication that I was only interested in selling to buyers within the US, and I specifically said that in the first sentence in my very first reply to him. So when I saw the Chinese characters this time, I asked where he lived. He replied, SHIPPING ADDRESS PORTLAND. I replied asking if it was a freight forwarding company that sent bulk cargo to China, and he replied, YES (his caps, not mine). I then asked where he lived, and he said Hong Kong.
Following is my intended reply:
I prefer to deal with people who are honest with me about their identities. I have had to ask you many questions just to establish that you are not in the US. You didn't lie to me, but you have been evasive about your circumstances. Those circumstances are important, because your PayPal rate and my net receipt from any sale may be affected. The fact that you use an international freight forwarder also impacts my ability to track the order and collect insurance if the item is lost--I have no way to do that.
I usually sell on Bladeforums rather than on eBay or other websites because it is a community of people with stronger connections than just money. That connection between trading partners makes transactions with one another a function of trust and respect, and facilitates fair dealing. Not all people who deal on BFC are honest or fair, but I find most are, and I value that relationship.
I don't feel you have demonstrated that level of respect for my need to know who you are and what your trading circumstances are. Consequently, I would prefer not to deal with you.
Sorry,
Will
I havent sent the above reply, yet. After composing it, I realized it is as much a venting exercise as anything, and it occurred to me it might be good to post it here and get opinions. I also thought it might be helpful for others to know this is happening more and more frequently, so they can be better prepared in advance than I was. I searched GB&U for similar situations, but haven't been able to find any.
Thanks for any thoughts,
Will
My first such experience was with a buyer who listed his location as Portland, OR. He negotiated aggressively to get me to reduce my price, and I finally brought it down from $220 to $215. When we switched from PM to emails, I noticed oriental characters appearing in his email besides the English words. He said hed take the knife, but when he PayPaled funds, the deduction for PayPals fee was 4%, not 3%. Since it was only a difference of about $2 on the $215, I let it go, but when I went to print a USPS printing label through PayPal, there was no confirmed address. I emailed him about it, and he replied with an address in Portland with two zip codes. I asked why the two zip codes, and he said because it was a freight forwarding company in Portland, OR that forwarded mail to Hong Kong, and it has become so big that it has its own zip code. However, only USPS seems to know about its zip code designation, so if I shipped by UPS or other I should use the other, more general zip code.
I informed him at that point that I would not be responsible for shipping or insurance under those circumstances, and that I would either refund his money or he could take his chances with shipping, with no liability to me. He opted to take the deal, no liability to me. I shipped, and never heard from him againno got the knife, no feedback, no nothing. Doesnt answer my emails.
I had a similar situation arise with a buyer "on the east coast (US)". That fellow was a little more forthcoming, also with Chinese characters in his email, but did say up front that I would be shipping to a US address and that the knife would be forwarded to him abroad. His PayPal fee was the standard 3%--I dont know why the difference between his PP% and the other buyers. I made the same deal, agreeing to ship with no liability to me, and again, never heard from him after I shipped the knife.
Third time up (all 3 over the course of the last six weeks), I received a PM from someone asking if I had Busse knives for sale--Id recently sold a few. I said I might, and he asked for photos. I sent one I had on file, and when he replied with his email asking for more photos, I saw the Chinese characters in the heading. By this time, I had become accustomed to saying up front in all communication that I was only interested in selling to buyers within the US, and I specifically said that in the first sentence in my very first reply to him. So when I saw the Chinese characters this time, I asked where he lived. He replied, SHIPPING ADDRESS PORTLAND. I replied asking if it was a freight forwarding company that sent bulk cargo to China, and he replied, YES (his caps, not mine). I then asked where he lived, and he said Hong Kong.
Following is my intended reply:
I prefer to deal with people who are honest with me about their identities. I have had to ask you many questions just to establish that you are not in the US. You didn't lie to me, but you have been evasive about your circumstances. Those circumstances are important, because your PayPal rate and my net receipt from any sale may be affected. The fact that you use an international freight forwarder also impacts my ability to track the order and collect insurance if the item is lost--I have no way to do that.
I usually sell on Bladeforums rather than on eBay or other websites because it is a community of people with stronger connections than just money. That connection between trading partners makes transactions with one another a function of trust and respect, and facilitates fair dealing. Not all people who deal on BFC are honest or fair, but I find most are, and I value that relationship.
I don't feel you have demonstrated that level of respect for my need to know who you are and what your trading circumstances are. Consequently, I would prefer not to deal with you.
Sorry,
Will
I havent sent the above reply, yet. After composing it, I realized it is as much a venting exercise as anything, and it occurred to me it might be good to post it here and get opinions. I also thought it might be helpful for others to know this is happening more and more frequently, so they can be better prepared in advance than I was. I searched GB&U for similar situations, but haven't been able to find any.
Thanks for any thoughts,
Will