Seriously, though, when I was beginning I had pretty much the same difficulty.
I was having trouble grinding my blades just the way I wanted them to be.
I found a guy in Blade Magazine giving knife lessons and went for a visit.
In minutes of grinding the first blade, I saw what I was doing wrong.
I was cured.

So, not only did I learn something and fix my problem, but I made a new acquaintance in knife making as well.
Find someone near you - or not near! - and get some help.
Get real world help. Not "computer" help.
I ad literally buckets and buckets of failed blades. That cost money!
Lots of us sort of "paid our dues" doing it the hard way, and I think lots and lots of failures and practice, practice, practice, sort of helps to solidify our progress.
Keep at it.
Back off when you get to the end.
Don't do anything before you have to.
Somebody had a good idea about marking your blade with a marker. See where the blade is hitting the belt and adjust accordingly.
Practice.
Practice.
Practice.