Welcome inhere Kim, almost every place is a friendly place with nice polite people. Just some advise, try to stay away from the Wine & Cheese forum. This is where all the "weird stuff" goes. If they move your post to Whine & Cheese you will meet some strange people in there. Their hobby is eating trolls ( people who post stupid stuff, or nonsense). They bash the troll till he has enough. Some people in W&C tend to go there as a stress relief method. If you don't wan't to get caught in the line of fire be cautious to post or answer to stuff in W&C.
Because you are a respectable man, the chance of you ending up in W&C is slim, but a warning is in place.
Greetz