How men treat beautiful women.

Walking Man

Walking Man

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Something that has bugged me for the longest time is to see how some men stop everything they are doing to kiss the asses of beautiful women. And it happens way more than anyone will ever admit. It happens on these forums, I don't think I need to mention any names (ahem, Simona.....)
Personally, I don't think these people are doing the women any favors. IMO it leads some of these women to believe that every one should treat them like godesses and they look down on those who do not. (not all, some)
I also think that the reason that you see so many older bitter women is exactly this. Because they were used to getting the butts kissed all the time, and then when they got older they still expected this treatment.
Thoughts?
 
Walking Man said:
I also think that the reason that you see so many older bitter women is exactly this. Because they were used to getting the butts kissed all the time, and then when they got older they still expected this treatment.
Thoughts?
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It's not just women. There are a lot of handsome slick-talking men who expect everybody to slobber all over them, too.
 
Cougar Allen said:
It's not just women. There are a lot of handsome slick-talking men who expect everybody to slobber all over them, too.
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Yeah, I better live it up while I can... though I expect I still have a good 20-25 yrs left though.;)
 
I look at gorgeous women when I pass them, but I sure as hell don't stop, stare, drool, ect.

I treat all people with the same amount of respect that they deserve. If this gorgeous woman is nice, and polite, and actually talks to me, then I smile, and answer politely. If I get sneered at, I have a frown that would make nuclear waste turn to glass. :eek: I treat men basicaly the same; I just don't look at their asses as I pass by. :barf:

My rule is be nice, until it is time not to be nice. (Patrick Swayze in 'Roadhouse' ) This applies to all equally.
 
Once while working in a furniture factory, a very beautiful college girl (we hired lots of summer help) who generally worked in the sewing room was working out on the floor. She was getting all the guys googly eyed and they were doing all of her work. :rolleyes:

She caught me on a bad day when I was really hungover and asked me to pick up something for her that only weighed about ten pounds. I said, "what, do you have a bad back or something?" You coulda heard a pin drop. People actually stopped working around us. She actually was pretty nice after that and turned into a pretty good friend of mine (no, she wouldn't go out with me:D ).

There is a comedian that has a joke about dreaming he was a woman. He said something like, "all of the sudden, people were nice to me for no reason!"
 
I agree with Walking Man.

Looks are a commodity in our society. People do receive differing treatment based upon their outer appearances. I think the problem arises when people rely upon their looks for their own validation. There has to be more to a person than what's on the surface. As age prevails, some of these people may very well find themselves alone and miserable. I think that for some, this process may be a blessing because it forces them to see themselves through a different lense. Life can be a very humbling experience. Each person learns a different lesson. I don't like seeing people learn the hard lessons. There's nothing satisfying about other people's pain. Perhaps I feel that way because I've learned enough of my own lessons to understand. Yet, at the end of the day, I sincerely hope their experience is one of discovery and fulfilment.

The older I get the more I struggle to find a reasoned balance in my values. My focus on appearances is one such struggle. That's not to say that I don't do everything I can to stay attractive. I do. I just try to do it now for different reasons. I won't let it define me. But, appearances do have a way of making your message more palatable. What I think, what I say, what I do, and what I strive to accomplish is who I am. If looks can help me along the way, then so be it. If my looks should fade, hopefully I'll still have me. Of course, that is another struggle entirely. :o :)
 
Along this subject it annoys the hell out of me when Jon Benet Ramsey. Lacie Peterson that kid that disappeared in Aruba.. the list goes on and on..are murdered or disappear it makes national news and is talked about on fox, CNN, MSNBC for fricking days on end..but when a 250lb black lady living in a trailer park in Detroit gets murdered ...it doesn't make the third page of the local news...why is that??? It pisses me off...People are people and the family of Lacie Peterson as well as the family of the murder victim in Detroit should be treated the same. But because Lacie was beautiful and hot looking and the details were torrid...well thats news...:barf: :barf:
 
Ren the devils trailboss said:
Along this subject it annoys the hell out of me when Jon Benet Ramsey. Lacie Peterson that kid that disappeared in Aruba.. the list goes on and on..are murdered or disappear it makes national news and is talked about on fox, CNN, MSNBC for fricking days on end..but when a 250lb black lady living in a trailer park in Detroit gets murdered ...it doesn't make the third page of the local news...why is that??? It pisses me off...People are people and the family of Lacie Peterson as well as the family of the murder victim in Detroit should be treated the same. But because Lacie was beautiful and hot looking and the details were torrid...well thats news...:barf: :barf:
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Gasp at the thought of that! Still pays to be of good looks and a financially stable household/relatives if you're in a horrible circumstance. Face it Ren, if the law were looking for you, or me, we'd never make the story on the national news either.
 
My experience is that men treat beautiful women different because they hope to subconsciously get something from them, ie; sex. When they realize they cannot get it, eventually, then they start to insult her, make remarks about her, and if they are even more mentallly weak, they will do criminal things.

If you can't eff her, scold her, that's the usual style of most guys. For instance, the way that simona girl was treated in this forum just showed how mentally weak some people can be. Sure, maybe she teased a bit with some ass photos, but what has that got to do with the silly baying for her blood after that?

It's as if those neanderthals just wanted an excuse so that they could start scolding her(because they can't eff her)......all along they wanted to but were held back for fear of being rude......but aha! Now we have a justification! False ass pics!

So sad to see this sort of mentally weak behaviour amongst the honourable forumites here.
 
"Code 3" made a great point, treat everyone with respect & be nice until its time to not be nice.
Must admit I have a hundred put downs for people who arent nice to you in the first place, & nothing gets up my nose more than a beautiful girl who (as we say in England) "fancies herself" but I must admit I often find myself entranced by hotties! I like to think I never kiss their asses, though!
(Well, at least not whilst the sun's still up!)
My late father once told me to ALWAYS go & talk to the prettiest girl in the room, coz nobody else will! LOL
As I get on in years I DO find myself more attracted to the inner rather than outer beauty though. That said, I'd still sell my Grandmother for one date with Jessica Alba!! LOL
 
I love to treat any woman/girl like a princess/queen. Nothing makes a girl smile like a held door, or friendly comment. I like to flirt with them all (over the age of 18, anyway). I find the beauty of an appreciative smile outweighs any number of combined features that make someone attractive based on societal parameters. Of course I hold the door for the models, as well. I agree with jsmatos, that differential treatment can cause problems with those that come to rely upon it. I try to even it all out a bit by treating them all the same. It isn't always easy, but I strive to Love all God's Children. That's Agape, not Eros.;)

DD
 
Funny little story.
A few years back I worked at Sears during this season. There were some good looking gals working there of course.
There was one really good looking gal that had a reputation as being a total and complete.... *unpolite word for female dog* ..
Whenever I had to go in her area I made it a point to not go out of my way in the least to be nice to her or even friendly and , after a few months it was she that became friendly with my homely self ! The "experiment" worked.
After talking to her a bit it seemed to me that her 'female dogginess' was a shield so that guys wouldnt try to hit on her so I assumed once she saw a guy had no interest in her quite valuable goods she may become at least talkative and I was right :D I felt a bit sorry for her , once she found my sympathetic ear she let a lot out , her mean boyfriend , etc etc..
Ah well.
 
When hot girls know they are hot and act accordingly I take great pride in bringing them back to reality by NOT giving them the expected treatment. One time I was in a bar and this extremely hot chick came up to us and asked for a cigarette. Not a big deal except she held out her hand like I had already agreed to give her one. I said no and she got bright red and said "you're a fucking asshole" and then went on to the next guy. I couldn't stop laughing.
 
I think Walking Man's thread hit the nail in the head spot on.

If I remember right, there's a scene in the Jim Carrie flick "Liar, Liar" when he was "cursed" to always tell the truth, an unnatural thing for the lawyer character he was playing---he enters the elevator with Krista Allen (Ok, I'd like to know who doesn't think she's NOT hot?!) and she says to him: "Everybody seems so NICE to me. . ." and then he responds truthfully, as he can't help it,: "It's because you've got big boobs!"
 
A beautiful woman with an ugly personality doesn't stay beautiful in my eyes for long.

One of my current pet peeves is to hear beautiful people say something along the lines of, "It's so hard being beautiful because people just assume that you aren't smart." Guess what pumpkin if you are beautiful and smart you can show people that you are smart. If you are smart and not beautiful then you just have to live with it.

"It's so hard being pretty. boohoo." Cry me a river you self centered moron.
 
I am th polar opposite. I know that really hot women get a lot of attention, usually from poor losers who think that they have a chance, so I give em none. I am not on th emarket, but I need more than just looks. Besides, my taste in women is a little different from the average guy's, anyway.
 
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