If the dies are easy to change, I would go a quite a bit more aggressive than you think you need. A treadle hammer is not awfully powerfull and the smaller surface area will be very helpful. Plus if they are actually too aggressive make another set, and there will usually be a use for the more aggressive ones down the road.
It reminds me when I started forging and would start hammering at a cherry red in fear I would damage the steel if it got too hot. I had a lot of blades that took enormous effort because I was afraid to be too aggressive with the heat. Once I learned how to properly forge, I stop forging now at the temps I was starting at, and it is so much easier and enjoyable.