How to Avoid Getting Burned

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I thought I'd start a thread where users could contribute their tips on how to avoid getting burned. This will cover getting burned by the Post Office as well as dishonest individuals.

The number of problems around here is pretty minimal. When a problem occurs, it tends to get a lot of attention because it's a rare event. However, there are some things you should know and some good practices to have. A large number of transactions occur here and elsewhere every day without problem. There is no need to distrust everyone. What are and aren't necessary measures to take are up to you. Use your best judgment.

I don't know much about international shipping and trading. I hope someone can chime in some useful information.

First thing you should do is read Suggestions for having a good Buying / Selling / Trading experience

Packaging

First I'd recommend reading How Should You Package Knives for Shipping? if you haven't done so already. Be sure to package any item so it doesn't get damaged!

I would avoid bubble envelopes for security reasons, at least for items that you'd be upset about losing. It is possible to feel the size of the item through the packaging with these. That means a dishonest postal employee knows if they can easily pocket the item. They're also very easy to cut or tear through. Standard Priority Mail starts at $3.85. If your bubble mailer has an "insured" sticker and the shipping was $8, it says "steal me!". It takes just a quick cut with a box cutter and your item is gone.


For privacy and security reasons, you may wish to use an abbreviation. For example if your business name is "Joe Smith Custom Knives", it may be a good idea to abbreviate "Joe Smith C. K."


Shipping

There is often confusion about the Post Office's services like Delivery Confirmation and Signature Confirmation.

Delivery Confirmation only shows that the item was delivered and when it was delivered. This means that it could've been delivered to a neighbor, for instance. In small claims court, Delivery Confirmation would not hold up for a seller. However, PayPal will accept it as proof that the item was delivered.

Signature Confirmation, on the other hand, requires a signature from the individual who accepts the package. This is excellent proof that the item was delivered to them. You can request a copy of the recipient's signature via fax or mail.

The cost of these services is available at the USPS web site. It's up to you to decide whether or not they're worth it. Personally, I'd recommend Signature Confirmation on any item you consider high-dollar and would be very upset with losing.


Registered Mail has the most security out of any Post Office service. However, there is a significant cost and hassle associated with it. You may wish to set a standard - for example use Registered on items $400+ or irreplaceable items. The packaging and eligibility standards are available here.


Some buyers will give a PO box as a shipping address. Some prefer not to let the world know that they collect high-end custom knives for instance. However, PO boxes are sometimes used by scammers because it gives them some anonymity. Their address can be subpoenaed by police though. You may wish to ask for something like a phone number as an additional security measure. Call it if you feel it is necessary. You may also wish to not ship to PO boxes. Be warned that you may lose some customers, however.

Payment

I am of the opinion that a buyer should always pay first before a seller ships. As we've seen, some can be a bit "reluctant" after they already have the item in hand.

Various methods of payment each have their own advantages and disadvantages for both buyers and sellers. First off I'd never use cash. Period.

With money orders, checks, and cashier's checks, you should always have the payment cashed before you ship. Always.

Postal money orders are cheap and available at any Post Office. They offer some anti-counterfeiting measures. You should familiarize yourself with them. However, it is still possible to receive a stolen or "missing" money order. If this is the case, you should contact the Postal Inspectors. As a buyer, always fill out the money order and keep the stub.

Personal checks, too, can also be stolen or counterfeit. They can also bounce. You may wish to ask for the buyer's phone number or only ship to an address on the check. As a buyer, you may be able to do a stop payment if you are quick. Modern electronic banking systems are making this much more difficult, however.

Cashier's checks and store money orders suffer from the same problems as postal money orders. You also may not be familiar with a particular organization's checks or money orders. This could leave you more vulnerable to counterfeiting. If you have a problem, contact the police.

PayPal offers some advantages but also pitfalls. Problems with stolen PayPal accounts are becoming more and more common. Both buyers and sellers should be verified. You get additional protection from PayPal this way. A good policy is not to do business with unverified individuals. If you are a buyer, you could theoretically do a chargeback with a credit card. However, try to resolve any dispute with PayPal first. They will gleefully yank your account for a chargeback.


Records

Always keep records. Let me repeat it again: always keep records.

This includes, but isn't limited to:

Emails and PMs
Bought and sold prices
Any shipping and insurance and payment receipts
Names and addresses
Dates of shipment and receipt of payment or merchandise
Serial numbers, if applicable
Photographs of items

Disputes

If you have a dispute with someone, your best bet is to email or call them. Some individuals are more likely to give you an answer or take action if you call them.

Some things you don't want to do are be very impatient, be rude or use profanities. This doesn't help.

If you are a buyer and feel the merchandise was misrepresented, politely ask for a return. Some sellers will accept unconditional returns. However I feel that "buyer's remorse" is a bit of an abuse.

If you haven't received merchandise or payment and the individual has said they finally shipped it, ask for proof if applicable. Some scammers have been known to stall you so you can no longer work with PayPal or do a chargeback or file a claim.

Eventually if you can't work things out and you are a buyer, you should try to reverse a payment.

If all else fails, there are the police as well as civil suits. If it comes to that, try having a chat with their or your local law enforcement. Be prepared to present all of your records. You did keep records, right?





That's about all I can think of for now. I'll amend this if I can think of more. I'd like some people to add their own ideas to this thread too.
 
Blade Forums is simply full of honest buyers and sellers.

However, there are somtimes a few "Wolves" amongst the dealers so let me
offer a few tips about checks and MO.

1. Never take a third party check.
2. Pay attention to the "for" line on a check. If it is supposed to be a just a
check for a payment and the "for" line says "paid in full" and you sign it and
cash it, you were "paid in full"
3. Take absolutely "No" counter checks with the top handwritten in. With
the name and address hand filled in.
4. Call and verify funds if the deal seems weird. Be warned though, once you
call those funds are "locked" out of the account and if the sender was not
expecting you to do that they will have checks bouncing all over the place.
5.Almost every MO has security features on the back of the draft. It can be
a pattern or something that you can rub with a eraser. No mark, be careful
it could be counterfeit. Many counterfiters with computers can make the
front look great, but the back and the security feature they can't duplicate.
Now you know what to look for.
6. Post dated checks danger, danger if you ship before that clears. Use it
to "hold" the item only, not to ship.
7.Everyone knows about PO Boxes, have you ever heard of a PMB? That is
a private post office box and often they have a street address attached to
them. Does that make the buyer "Henke" who knows, but they certainly
do not live at that address, that's a mail drop.

Just a few thoughts for those who are engaged in honest business and hate
being ripped off.

BTW,a partial payment upfront is better than no payment at all.

Happy Hunting.
 
I just wanted to add that some people have no choice about having to use a PO Box. I live in a small town in Illinois where I CAN NOT get mail delivered, I HAVE to use a PO Box. What's funny about that is the PO Website won't accept a PO Box when you forward your mail from where ever you used to live. Makes a lot of sense eh? :confused:

later,

oil
 
I still live at home (pipe down, pipe down, I still pay rent and I'm looking for a house as we speak). Anyway, I was told to get a PO Box. I have no problem giving out my home address, but I use the PO Box for sending and receiving mail. So far, no one has had a problem with that.

Postal money orders. These are preferred by many sellers, not just on here, because you can usually cash them right away at the post office. Granted, if you've just received payment for a 500 dollar knife, the PO might not be able to cash it. But if you get several small MO's, they can accomadate you. If my buyers can't get a postal money order, I recommend Walmart, Target, the grocery store, a bank or even 7-11. All money orders are pretty much cash in hand, but postal money orders, Wells Fargo, banks, and Western Union money orders are much better in the long run IMHO. With a money order, you get your item faster, the seller gets their money easier and faster, and the buyer has a receipt for the money sent. If the buyer sends a check, and it is lost, or cashed and no knife is sent, they're out of luck. At the very least, if it hasn't been cashed yet and is lost, they have to put a stop on the check and that costs 25 bucks, at least here in MD.

Now, why am I so gung ho about using money orders when Paypal is there? Well, I've had some bad experiences with Paypal, both as a seller and a buyer. Also, even though Paypal has it on file, I really don't want my bank account and credit card information out there.






SHIPPING. I try to use padded envelopes for everything I sell. I use bubble wrap on all the knives I send out. If you don't have bubble wrap, use old newspaper, although try to get some bubble wrap. I have a good amount of it, all of it from knives I have received from other members here. Those guys handling your stuff, at UPS, USPS and Fed Ex, do not care about your knife as it is being shipped cross country.
 
If you are shipping to Canada my recommendation is to use the USPS. The reason is that they have far lower customs fees than UPS, DHL or F.E. do.

Always send by a means that can be tracked.
 
One more thought on Money Orders, you can get a copy of your cashed
MO by writing the company that issued it and paying the normally small
fee. The copy will include who signed the MO and were it was cashed.

PO boxes aren't necessarily "bad" at all. Just be aware that the UPS store
rents PMB that accept USPS packages and the only signature that will be
on record is the store clerk's. So all the "signature required" and "delivery
confirmation" protections will lead to is a desk clerk's signature. They sign
for it then put the package in the private box and the purchaser just picks
it up, they sign nothing.
 
In this day and age all this cheque and MO stuff seems a little dated. Why not insist on Internet banking? Its instantanious, there is a record that will not be falsified and its secure.

Is postal theft that much of an issue in the US? I have lived all over the world and sent things of value in regular envelopes and boxes all the time and have never lost a thing.

It just seems odd that the integrity of the PO comes up so much.
 
I would rather not use bubble mailers because they can be torn or even opened by postal employees fairly easily. A cardboard usps priority box is a much safer way to go, and is free.
 
I am aware that some custom makers have had large email orders, always to be paid by credit card, possibly several thousands worth going out to the far east. It may be difficult to check out the credit card if it is from a foriegn issuing bank, but one piece of advice I can offer is to try to check out the address/buyer with the knifenuts on the Asia/Australia community section of the forums, especially if the deal smells fishy.

A knifemaker whom I bought from recently emailed me to check on an address which came out to be false. I suspect the buyer either knew that the Post Office would redirect the mail correctly or was in league with someone at the Post Office dealing with incorrectly addressed packages.

Cheats like these make it difficult for the honest buyers from this part of the world.
 
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