Hey Salem. Release agents may help but, from my experience, they just create predictable first to fail joints that sometimes require a surprising amount of force to break after cure. Id think preventative action is a better way to go here.
I know two MS who both nearly flood similar joints with WD-40 on Q-tips, etc. For sure this works great at removing excess epoxy but personally spooks me in regard to solvent wicking up between the components and killing the bond where it really matters (I have tested this personally). So I save the WD-40 and wood\brass scrapers as a last ditch solution prior to full cure.
If your materials are nickel silver/416SS for the coined spacer situation you describe I would personally just forget the release agents and organic solvents and use white vinegar instead. You can clip down a nylon toothbrush to half height to stiffen it up like a decent mini parts brush. Wrap your nogo areas in plastic wrap etc. to mask. Then just squirt some vinegar on a clean shop rag (no paper towels here), scrub your clean dry brush into that spot to slightly wet the bristles, then go to town on your assembly without fear.
I usually clamp and let the epoxy set up for an hour or two at RT then carefully dry scrape any bulk squeeze out. Then - alternating several rounds among the vinegar-wetted towel, the joint itself and a clean dry section of towel usually leaves an immaculate seam with no visible epoxy. This works great on scales too as long as mechanical fitup is precise. The added benefits are that there is only enough wetting to dissolve/remove the exposed epoxy without vinegar wicking between your components, there are few inadvertent scrapes or scratches from nylon bristles, and this doesnt depend on great lighting/vision to do a high-quality job relatively quickly.
Not the only way for sure and will of course slightly etch your carbon steels if not protected.
FWIW I have had very good results with this method when using either Acraglass regular or WS G/Flex650 somewhere between 1 and 2 hr post mix.
Ill be interested to see what you come up with here; you have been building some thoughtful beautiful stuff!