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- Nov 28, 1999
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learn how to say this, or at least learn how to say "hey i would like to try my teachnique against yours". this is how you become a better fighter, build your reputation as a fighter, and get confidence in the technique you know.
you know what i look down on 95% of the arnis/eskrima i come across, as visitors to my school know this. the way to change my view is to spar with me, or have one of your students fight my student. because i have this attitude, i can say to my students "this is how you beat so and so" and look him in the eye. do my students win all the time, no, but they have no fear around other fighters. and if you have no confidence, what good is your knowledge.
one thing i notice in the "FMA" community, is people who demonstrate technique and drills, and if its something another person doesnt know, he is "impressed" and now he wants to learn it. everybody is doing what everybody else is doing, and nobody knows who can beat who. so i say, they are good at demoing, and drilling, because who saw them do anything else. in 1999 i did a "seminar" at CSUS, and a visiting arnis teacher asked me can he give me a suggestion, he said two things, teach more techniques and forget the sparring. sparring they can do at home (i dont think they will) and they came all the way here for something new. technique collectors. show me something i can show my friends. everytime i teach, you can bet you going to do at least 500 hits. and if i am not going to see you for a long time, we are going to spar. period. keep your money.
when you met somebody from another style, if you miss the chance to fight them, you miss the chance to get better and learn about another style, i dont care what he showed to you.
when somebody tells you he doesnt make sense what you are talking about, smile, pick up your weapon, then show him.
you know what i look down on 95% of the arnis/eskrima i come across, as visitors to my school know this. the way to change my view is to spar with me, or have one of your students fight my student. because i have this attitude, i can say to my students "this is how you beat so and so" and look him in the eye. do my students win all the time, no, but they have no fear around other fighters. and if you have no confidence, what good is your knowledge.
one thing i notice in the "FMA" community, is people who demonstrate technique and drills, and if its something another person doesnt know, he is "impressed" and now he wants to learn it. everybody is doing what everybody else is doing, and nobody knows who can beat who. so i say, they are good at demoing, and drilling, because who saw them do anything else. in 1999 i did a "seminar" at CSUS, and a visiting arnis teacher asked me can he give me a suggestion, he said two things, teach more techniques and forget the sparring. sparring they can do at home (i dont think they will) and they came all the way here for something new. technique collectors. show me something i can show my friends. everytime i teach, you can bet you going to do at least 500 hits. and if i am not going to see you for a long time, we are going to spar. period. keep your money.
when you met somebody from another style, if you miss the chance to fight them, you miss the chance to get better and learn about another style, i dont care what he showed to you.
when somebody tells you he doesnt make sense what you are talking about, smile, pick up your weapon, then show him.