I have had one heck of a evening!!!!!!

Amy-0 said:
No I had the the dreaded phone call from far away....."Amy we have some news" .........not good news I really am at a lost for words at this one.......I just to be honest am speechless!!!!! I do not wanna bother anyone with this but I really need some info...A good friend of mine had a restraining order for her husband........long story short it did not work and he broke in.......and well I have to go to a funeral.........I am very angry I keep thinking I should have done something more......I am well ,sad....everyone is probably saying deal with why are you bugging the forums with this nonsense........well I am sorry but I need some friends right now cause I am just so confused why this would happen???????????? Thank you all for listioning.

I'm sorry Amy, that really hurts. There is nothing more sad or pathetic than a man hurting a woman. I don't know what else to say.
 
idahoskunk said:
yeah, and the bastard should fry!!! :grumpy: :mad: :thumbdn:

No he shouldn't. I am against the death penelty for cases like this where lethal injection is far to fast and painless.

Unfortunately, my suggestion was "EDITED FOR INAPPROPRIATE FORUM CONTENT"

I have to agree Mike, it was pretty disgusting. :eek: Sorry about that.

There should be two types of executions: a death penelty where death happens peacefully in under a minute and the "fate worse than death" that takes longer, much longer. :thumbup:
 
Sorry to hear about your friend Amy, Long story made short i new a police officer that was called to a wreck there were 2 officers there the kid said he tried to miss a dog when he pointed they turned there heads he shot and killed one officer well he was tried as a adult the last i heard which was 6 or 7 years ago he had 5 or 6 reconstrutive surgerys and thats what the sob deserved
 
Very Sorry to hear about your friend...The Justice System ...well lets say that it is weak at best. keeep your chin up and know we are out there root in for you and your friend...Jack
 
Hey Amy! My heart goes out to you! I wish you would have called me back Wednesday night. You know you are more than welcome to cry on my shoulder or rant to me anytime you need to. I will always be here for you! Over the past 2 1/2 years you have been a great friend! If you need anything, anything at all please call me or stop by. My home is always open to you!

My thoughts and prayers will be with her family!

~Kassi~
 
I took my post out because I see where this is going. A very controversal subject. I apologize if I offended anyone that read my old post.

~Kassi~
 
Kassi,

i think what mhawg means is that the police won't be sitting around to protect you or watch this guy. if a person doesn't believe in the law or follow it, they will wait till they have the upper hand and do as they please.

mhawg simply means that you should be prepared to defend yourself till and if the police get there, or keep yourself out of harms way.

it might not have been Amy's friends personality but if possible she should have expected that and maybe laid low or carried personal protection to defend herself till support came.

my wife does know how to shoot and carries, i don't know if she has the courage to actually shoot should the time come.

i personally would rather have the tables turned and Amy's friend be living and her attacker have met mr. hollowpoint at the door....

i love you too!!
 
Skunk, you're probably right. I think I just flew off the handle and read it the wrong way. I apologize! Yeah I feel like a big ass! :foot:

Sorry!! I promise that is the last time I act unladylike! Kisses for everyone! :D

~Kassi~
 
What Mhawg means and is correct in saying is that the police are not psychic, they cannot guess where the next crime is going to happen. Sure if the police are forwarned about someones plan to kill someone else, then they will respond and stop it, but most murders are not telegraphed to everyone. You need to protect yourself somehow. In most cases that's impossible as murders or beatings are by surprise and people are cought off guard.

Amy, I feel for your loss and the terrible way in which it happened. Anyone who is capable of hurting another human being, not in self defense, is a POC in my book. You don't have to have killed someone to qualify. Look at al the abused and battered women and children. This is done by men of no fortitude...cowards..basically. There is no excuse for hurting another human being other than self defense.

Anyway, always there for you if you wanna talk.
 
As a family doc, I have to try and help with this sort of thing a lot. Too often.

Please email me if I can give any help or advice, Amy.
 
Amy,

Strength to you and your friend's family during this tough, enraging time. My thoughts are with you.

Bill
 
RF said it best. laws don't stop criminals. unfortunately, a lot of good people are hurt or killed because of a few bad people.

you need a day at the range. always helps to find your center. it's like that thing the hippies do... what is it? meditation?

love ya, lady!
 
Amy-O
Unfortunely that seems how the"justice system" works. Keep letting the perps. out and the child molesters out over and over again.

I am sorry for your loss of a friend. None of us can give you the words that will cure your loss. We can but hope that now that it's too late he will get his just punishment.

This is the place to come to let it out if it helps you at all!!

Sorry if I ramble but you just touched on one of my biggest problems with our so called "justice system"....it's NOT! and it will never be worth becoming a victum. Too bad you friend did not have a hand full of blade to end her problem.

Ciao
:mad: :thumbdn:
 
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