I know this does NOT help, but I just have to say that I have exactly the same difficulties as nphelps4130.
ZDP-189 IS one heck of a H-A-R-D steel, and it seems that the sharpmaker just performs better (or lets say easier) with less hard steels like VG-10 in my hands.
On the other hand, I have an E4 ZDP, too, and it was not only sharper out of the box than the D4, but it seems it is easier to touch up for me. I just don't know if this is due to a different (factory) grind angle, (although on my D4,the grind angle on the "right" side seemed higher than on the other side), or if the blades are made of different batches of the steel with slightly different attributes.
That said, with lots of work, you can finally get your ZDP Delica shaving sharp on the sharpmaker. It just takes a lot more time.... and I didn't achieve a good "polished" edge to push-cut paper to this day, just like nphelps4130. But the blade cuts like hell anyway
So, if the main task for your knife is to show off in front of your friends how effortless it can push-cut paper (nothing wrong with that

), there are lots of steels that can perform equally good or even better that ZDP-189. Heck, even AUS-6 will be excellent for that.
But if you use your knife hard for tough tasks where you need a knife that holds its sharp edge longer than any other knife, ZDP is the one for you.
Dennis