I've smoked for 34 years.I quit 2 years ago,cold turkey,for 7 months,me and my wife did.It was hard, but we did it.Then one fine day,while having a few brews,we thought let's have a cigar.I mean we already kicked the habbit right,one cigar won't hurt.Bad idea,it started slowly,then back up to a pack a day within a month.We quit again right after this last New Years,and have'nt had one since.We went on the patch.I did a full patch for a week,a half patch for a week,and a quarter patch for a week.I still carry a patch around in my lunch box,just in case,while at work.It aint easy,but we're makin it.I always have a toothpick in my mouth,but it's healthier than the alternative.I also go for walks and climb alot of stairs.You have to beware on the food thing after about 3 weeks,because food really starts to taste alot better.Good luck,and keep the faith.