As for "calling someone out" as you put it, what other information do you think I should have provided?
Again, the information that is critical to me is
what he promised when you placed the order and gave him your money. If he told you then it might take a year, then of course the subsequent optimistic e-mails that it would be completed sooner would be disappointing as a buyer, but if he told me at the outset it would take a year, then he has still not breached what he originally promised and what I should have expected when I made my commitment with the order. So I think that is important information I still haven't seen from you. If I have missed that, then I apologize.
And yes, when you post a thumbs down next to a maker's name and tell folks to avoid him, I refer to that as "calling him out." But maybe that is just a local colloquial expression.
BTW, I think I can speak from some experience on this.
I ordered a knife from another maker who has posted here - and paid him upfront like you did - where he told me
up front when I sent him the money that the knife would be completed in about a month or so. Many months later he did not deliver my knife and stopped answering my e-mails. I asked for my money back . . . he would not reply. So I went to his web site and saw that he was still taking orders and promising quick deliveries. So I used a different one of my e-mail addresses and contacted him with that e-mail address about placing a new order with him. Just as I expected, he IMMEDIATELY responded to THAT message!! LOL! And again promised he could complete this new order in a month or so. Then I busted him and told him I was the same guy who already had an order from many months ago whose e-mails he was now ignoring, and I demanded that he immediately refund my money (which he did). If you search my posts here you can see that I posted all about this here at BF.
In contrast, there is another maker with whom I placed an order who told me up front that it would be about 18 months. About 10 months later I checked in with him just to see if his schedule had not changed, and he told me that he was grinding my blade in the next 4 weeks. Then I did not hear from the guy again for more than six months. So I checked back and he said that he had just ground my blade and it was off to heat treating. Now did this bother me? Not really, because even though he told me six months ago my blade was going to be ground then, I was still a couple of months under the 18 month timeframe he originally promised when I placed my order.
So I think that the commitment made at the time you placed the order is really critical here. JMO.