Welcome back, the press looks good
I'll throw in my 2 cents on the school thing. Avoid student loans if at all possible. If you can get the scholarships or whatever you need to make it work then go for it, but don't put yourself in the hole if there's somewhere else you like that is within your budget. I just paid my tuition for the last time and will graduate from OSU in June. Not having any loans to pay off is a huge weight off my shoulders. I have friends that are 25 thousand or more in debt and still don't have a place to live or a decent car to drive. It can really weigh on you.
Also, I lived at home during school. It saved money, and I got to work in my shop, or ride my horses anytime I wanted. I don't know if you live within a reasonable distance from either school to drive back and forth, but in a tough program like engineering you'll be alot happier if you can go hammer some steel to blow off steam. And it will be a lot more productive stress releiver than getting hammered at some party or bar.
Good luck with it all. I know how hard its getting to get into a decent school. Especially for engineering.