Whether you want to believe it or not, this is how it's going to go for most people. Just because you value something and build up a collection doesn't mean any one of your loved ones will want to keep it when you're gone. Honestly, dealing with people's stuff after they've passed is generally a very big hassle for those they leave behind. It's one of the reasons I frequently go through my stuff and pare down my possessions to only those I truly use/need. Even though I'm young, I deal with death enough and had enough close calls on the job to realize you are not guaranteed your next breath. I don't want my loved ones to have a big burden should I suddenly die.