You just didn't see the right showing. When I saw the film I went to a free sneak preview several weeks before the movie was released. While the volume in the theater was literally so loud that I thought my rib cage was rattling, it was apparently not loud enough for some. In the row directly behind me, a middle-aged white fellow told the young-to-middle-aged black woman a few chairs over from him to shut up, in no uncertain terms.
Later -- and ironically enough, during a scene where Anthony Hopkins is wrestling with some of the prison guards -- the two of them must have gotten into it again, though I didn't hear them arguing below the volume of the movie.
The next thing I know, the black woman walked over to the white guy and punched him right in the face. Then the two of them began scuffling and wrestling with each other like a pair of Jerry Springer guests.
Our hapless male moviegoer eventually disengaged from his attacker. She just walked out, moments before an usher arrived. If she was smart enough to keep on walking, I suspect she made it out before mall security could be contacted, so it's my assumption that she got away free and clear.
Our angry white male made several errors that I could see:
1. He wasn't more polite in asking her to be quiet. People today don't respond to indignant orders, because most members of the public at large are excrement with no manners and even less intelligence. (Here my misanthropy is showing, but what can you do?)
2. He didn't just get up and move when she refused to quiet down.
3. He was completely and totally unprepared for her to initiate violence against him, and as a result got his behind kicked (or his face punched, depending on how you want to look at it). If you're going to get all loud and nasty with people, you'd better be prepared to defend yourself if they take offense (rightly or wrongly) at your tone.
All this got me to thinking: I carry a tactical folder. Would I use it in that situation? Probably not -- I wouldn't have gotten into the fight in the first place.
How 'bout you?
Razor