If I sell an item I never ask to add 4% but I think it should be up to the seller to choose how they want to price their item. Just because something irritates your doesn't mean BF has to make a policy on it. Bladeforums should not have to make a new policy to enforce PayPal's rules. If you don't like the terms don't buy it. How about a policy against lowballing, that can be equally if not more irritating..... yet it would be absurd for BF to get involved in an issue that is between buyer and seller. If they work out a deal, fine. If they can't, then no deal. That is the whole idea of a free market.
If I buy an item I read the seller's terms carefully. Gifting is less secure because the buyer is giving up PayPal's "protection" in case the item doesn't arrive. If you accept these terms as a buyer you are knowingly doing so. That is quite different from deception or fraud. If a seller requests a gift they should be willing to issue a refund if needed. If you have questions email the seller. PayPal does charge sellers a fee, it is up to the seller how they want to deal with that.
I guess they should be able to price it anyway they want, but why not make everything a lot simpler ? This is the price $XXX Delivered. Simple.
Adding the 3 or 5 percent, whichever they deem appropriate, is very simple math. With a calculator, it should only take about 5 seconds to figure it out.
How many sale threads are there that list, price is $xxx, add 3% for PP fees, or use the Gift option, and shipping is $xx. Oh, insurance is extra if you want it...
Ignorance is no excuse, but I wonder how many of these people that pay using the Gift option, actually realize they have no recourse, if the item doesn't show up ?
I think there are a lot of people that think insurance is to cover the buyer. It seems there are both sellers and buyers that think that is what it is for.
Perhaps I am only hurting myself by letting these issues bother me. I know in the last week, I have found three different knives that I really wanted, but after reading the sellers terms, I passed on them. One knife in particular would have been good for the seller, because it has been for sale for awhile now, and doesn't seem to be getting much interest. In all honesty I don't know why it isn't, but it isn't.
As always Esav, you are the voice of reason. Knowing this has been a long time, contentious issue I was reading the post as "why can't they do it the way I want" instead of thinking it could be instructional to others. I read frequently on the Traditional forum about folks that get good deals once in a while on the exchange, but I have had such terrific luck with the BF vendors I just don't look at it.
I should probably moderate my thinking some as when I see a problem that I can get around with no pain or payment. With so much going on these days I tend to take the easy way out whenever possible.
Thanks for the "heads up".
Robert
I like things simple as well Robert. I also like to browse the exchange. Not because I am hoping to make a killer deal, although that would be nice

, but there are so many different knives available, a lot of times a person can find a knife that might otherwise be difficult to find. Besides, buying from another member here is a great way to get an honest description of the knife, because we know that most of us here, know a little about the item. Granted this isn't always the case, but I think a fair number of sellers here, have at least a good basic knowledge of knives. After all, that is what we are here for.
I agree 100% about the supporting vendors. I have yet to have a single problem with any of them.
USPS also delivers to US possessions like Puerto Rico, US Virgin Islands, and Guam.
Thanks Ed. That is something I had never thought about
Someone mentioned only shipping in the CONUS. I have been guilty of listing that. The only reason being because of the stories I have read about items not getting where they are supposed to go...
I have made exceptions and shipped to three different countries, and an F.O.B in the sand box, and never had any issues.
Perhaps I just don't have enough experience with overseas shipping, and am paranoid for no reason...