Chrisaloia - first off, I love these kind of posts. Sure get to see lots of different opinions.
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Regarding weight, generally I like to be light. However, to shave off ounces by cutting all the tags out of the clothing, and removing the zipper pull strings, and cutting off all extra web tabs, shortening the extra material not used in a seam.....seems a bit overboard for me, but I know some Ultra light guys like that stuff. Though, most of those guys are seriously in shape and don't need to drop 15lbs of fat like I do.
The biggest problem I see with trying to compare gear lists, is that the definitition of "having the right gear" and "being comfortable" mean very different things to almost everyone.
An example - on a mountaineering trip where I can hike/scramble to a hut (with 8km of travel and 900m elevation gain) for an overnight stay using their fuel, cooking gear and sleeping pads - I will travel really light. Just some food, clothing and my boots, with a very small 2" folder (because I like to whittle stuff when sitting around at the hut) and a roll of fabric tape for a first aid kit. Because of the terrain, I wear a climbing helmet.
Now, if I spend the night there, then climb a mountaineering objective the next day with another 600m gain, with 5km travel - I basically bring the same stuff as above, with the addition of crampons and a mtn axe. No harness...might bring a length of 8mm dia. rope, maybe not, depends on conditions
However, if I am not soloing thate route and am taking guests with me, then I carry a more comprehensive first aid kit (so I can truly "care for" my guest) - I bring some rock gear (pitons, hammer, maybe some nuts) - I bring a full 60m long rope, harness, etc.....oh, and I will have also carried up a couple of cans of beer to the hut with me for a treat. I will have brought chocolate bars with me (good for karma) and I will have done a complete gear and pack check of my guests. I will have removed all the fixed blades, 4 knives, 3 extra sets of camera batteries, 3 pairs of undies, whole rolls of toilet paper, pillows, gameboys, and whatever else they have brought along with the thinking that, "it's only a few ounces"...when in reality, those ounces will feel like pounds in a couple of hours - and really aren't necessary. If they still want to carry that stuff, they can feel free, but I will point out the physical misery they will probably feel.
In both instances, I feel that I am bringing the right gear to be safe, and I am "comfortable and well fed"
For your comparison, the last time I did this trip solo, I met two people. One man and one woman who were going to climb the mountaineering route after staying in the hut. They brought enough clothes to have a full change each, plus extra food and enough gadgets to start their own Walmart.....and they felt safe and comfortable. We were in the same general physical condition, but I took less than half the time they did to climb to the hut. Because of all the gear they carried, a knee injury was aggravated making the next day's climb out of the question.....and they were no longer safe, happy nor comfortable as they had a really tough day downclimbing to the hiking trail. The guy had to carry almost all the gear with the woman inching down the slope.
As you can see ---- it all depends.
sorry that was so long and rambling, but I get a real kick out of these discussions on what is mandatory vs nice to have. Particularily with the BF audience who love knives and bug-out bags, PSK's, etc.