If it looks like there is a fight ahead you might do well to go over the situation with a TRUSTWORTHY attorney asap. The reason I say trustworthy is that some attorneys have been known to allow a big mess so as to have more to clean up later. Have them run you through some scenarios of what to watch out for and how to prepare for it. Check that all the paperwork is in order etc. You might also make a photo inventory of everything in the house. Just in case things wander. :barf: