jtstrider; NOT to be trusted!

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20 May 2005, jtstrider posted an offer on my Old School Strider for sale thread. If you read the thread, you can see that I responded to his offer. I sent him a private email accepting his offer of a NIB Microtech X70 OTF auto and $150 cash for my Strider. He immediately replies that he wants to Overnight the stuff and wants me to Overnight mine to him. Well, because he is brand new to the forums, and nobody knows him(joined BF in June 05 and had only 20 posts), I request that he ships first and that I'll ship as soon as I get his stuff. I send him my mailing info. I even tell him that Overnight is not necessary, and tell him to use Priority Mail.

He replies "yeh that's cool", says he understands about my waiting to ship until I get his package and sends me his mailing address. At this time(20 Jun), the deal is done and I'm waiting for his package. Saturday the 25th comes around and I still have no package, so I send him a friendly email on Sunday the 26th, inquiring as to whether or not he was able to ship on Monday like he told me he was going to.

He responds and asks if I had received his other two emails, where he supposedly asking for a little more time to think about it. Mentions something about how some guys are getting almost $250 for the Microtech. Well, DUHH. Why do you think I accepted his trade offer, when I had written in my thread that I only wanted cash ??? By the way, I received NO emails from this guy, and reply that we had a deal. I reminded him that HE proposed the trade/cash deal and that I accepted it on good faith and that I expected him to honor his word.

His response was puzzling, to say the least. He replies that I was getting ahead of myself, and that as of our last conversation, we hadn't finalized the deal and that we were still working out specifics. ??? Umm, excuse me? What part of my accepting his offer, sending him my mailing address and his replying with an OK and him sending his mailing address doesn't he understand? His email responses have degraded to him belittling my Strider and saying that there must be something wrong with it, otherwise I wouldn't be pushing him so hard. WTF? All I expect is for him to do what any honorable person would do; keep their word(especially since it was HIS idea in the first place) Ya know, jtstrider could have handled this a lot differently. If he had changed his mind, he could have waited until recieving the Strider, and told me he didn't like it. I would have then sent his stuff back. Basically, at this point, I wouldn't sell this guy a rubber mallet to smack himself in the head with. Just wanted everybody to know what kind of person they might be considering dealing with. IMHO, DONT DO IT! Just say NO to jtstrider.
 
Danbo,IMO

I can't imagine that you haven't been through this before.

He obviously wanted to back out and didn't know how to.

This just happen to me AGAIN last week with someone else.

A deal is not final until both partys are happy.

I don't see were you are out anything?

I'm not sure this is worthy of the GB&U.
 
I guess we have to disagree on this rgray, I'd like to know if the person I'm considering a deal with is squirelly BEFORE rather then AFTER.
 
have u lost anything? NO!! u didnt honor the fact that another person asked for more time and then pushed your knife on him. and why are some parts of the emails left out??? its incredibly amazing that u are pushing someone to send u $150 only a few days after posting on another forum that your wallet was "hurting". good,bad, and ugly is a place for people who got ripped off, not who DIDNT GET THEIR WAY!!!!!!
 
DaveH said:
I guess we have to disagree on this rgray, I'd like to know if the person I'm considering a deal with is squirelly BEFORE rather then AFTER.

Dave, the guys a newbie and Danbo is coming down on him like a ton of bricks.

What has Danbo lost?

If you read jtstrider posts you can see that he doesn't know what he's doing.
 
RGRAY said:
Dave, the guys a newbie and Danbo is coming down on him like a ton of bricks.

What has Danbo lost?

If you read jtstrider posts you can see that he doesn't know what he's doing.

RGRAY, you don't know the half of it. This guy's no newbie. He knows what he's doing; he just didn't get away with it on me.
 
wolfmann601 said:
Newbie?

I don't think so.................

Toasted, nicely toasted, just the way I likes my poopie.

jtstrider is not to be trusted, not to trade with, not to be a member of the BladeForums in good standing, and has been entered into the historic rolls of the PT list.

Best Regards,

STeven Garsson
 
If you agree to a deal,even though you still exercise a dominion over an item,it already belongs to the other person,even if you agree to trade a Busse SHBM for a Pakistani boot knife,it`s your problem.I can`t believe the nerve of this jtstrider guy.
 
No, no, no. It's a deal when everybody's happy. jtstrider isn't happy, so it's not a deal.

On the other hand, we are a community here, especially on the Exchange Forums. We have our own culture, our ways and means of communicating, and respecting each other, and especially of respecting senior members who have been doing this for a long and successful time.

I don't particularly like the way we all seem to jump in and criticize someone who's new or ignorant of the routine, but jtstrider isn't helping himself by acting like we have to follow his rules and take his word for anything.

Insulting Danbo is no way to establish your credentials. They say, "No harm, no foul," but if you can't play well with others, you won't be welcome here, no matter what story you try to hand us, against the word of someone we already value.
 
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