I carry. I always carry. I often have a buck 501 or a leek in my pajama pocket.
My wife got very used to it, and finally, all on her own, she went to Walmart and bought herself a knife. She picked out a Gerber Gator (plain edged). She carried that in purse or car for a while, but found it a bit much for pockets. She next got a rainbow leek, but found the handle too slim to feel safe. She finally settled on a kershaw blackout, serrated; She never leaves home without it, and at home, she flips it open about once every pause between instant messages... (And, no, her long fingernails do not hinder her w/ the thumbstud, but the flipper on the leeks do).
YMMV
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