Kamagong. Once you have an idea of the fundamentals - breathing, sight alignment, and sight picture, then start easing over to the Zen aspects. Be it bow, hawk tossin (stump throwing) or shooting, it seems when I let myself just kind of flow out to the target mentally I do a lot better. I've found that if I try to focus purely on the mechanics I don't do nearly as well. I need that mental extension and to just kind of let the mechanics flow into a movement. That may sound a little new agey, but it works for me and gives me more pleasure out of the experience. Naturally, you have to have the fundamentals down first until they to become a fluid, natural movement. Above all, don't take yourself too serious and HAVE FUN! If it's all work and frustration it will never come together.
I was also self taught on sharpening. Probably cussed a few knives for being junk when it was probably my fault along the way. I have used crock sticks and a little Sypderco sharpening thing I bought at Ft. Devens, MA back in 83 or so. Still have and use them occasionally. However, along the way I mostly used Arkansas oil stones along the way. I read the part about the 20 degree angle and slicing, so that's what I did. My tri-stones came with a little plastic wedge that helped you keep the angle while you were learning. After a little while I got into freehanding.
Over time I found out that if I just took a moment and thought about it, remembering to pay some attention to keeping the blade steady, I could get most of my knives shaving sharp even using the slicing method. After a while most knives just kind of told me what angle they needed and if I was paying attention and listened things worked quite well. If things weren't working too good usually it was I wasn't listening as I should, or I was just kind of off at that time. Best then to just quit and come back later when I was more able to zone in. I usually ended up doing a few licks on a belt or similar piece of leather for a final stropping. Like Jackknife, I just used plain old leather. It wasn't until I got on here that I even heard of charged leather.
Now with the above methods I was pretty at home with 1095/CV steel (except some carbon Bokers that just seem to be a bit hard edged) and 440 type stainless. Oh, and SAK steel. I could feel the feedback from the blade as I sharpened telling me when things were right. When I started sharpening some 420HC stuff it felt a little weird to me, kind of slick or something. I've gotten better with it. I also found that how the blade is originally ground makes a big difference for me when free hand sharpening.
I do pretty decent with what I have and the stuff I'm familiar with steel wise. That doesn't make me a sharpening wizard by any means. I've been learning plenty of things on here and around. Never want to stop learning.
I am going to pick a few blades, get a small stone/diamond hone, and get comfortable with the lil' circles technique. Like Jackknife presents, it makes a handy way of keeping your sharpener with you and keeping things touched up when they're needed. I also know that rhythmic sound and motion of sharpening that way will be as relaxing and meditative as whittling a stick into shavings. I also like the idea of keeping things small, simple, and easy to keep on hand.
Just my pocket change of thoughts.