Paw you are way off here! You've read things into my post that don't exist. First off I'm not upset at anyone. I wasn't even really upset with the people I sent my money to. I was just trying to get as much info as I could so I could make a decision about how to handle it. Second I wasn't begging for anything, I simply asked for information because I didn't have that info. That's what most forums are typically are most useful for.
Now here's what I meant in my sentence you quoted. I own a business, my front door is open to who ever wants to walk through it. If I have people in my office and someone walks through my door and shoots some one I feel some responsibility because I have an open invitation to everyone to walk in to do business with me. Do I take the full blame for everyone who gets shot? No! The guy who did the shooting gets the blame for that. But I did share some responsibility in bringing them all together and not protecting them. What is my cost? Just to offer what ever help I can. That's all I was asking for the forum. Just for nice, honest, humble information from people who may have had some previous dealings with the company I was asking about. If I would give all the information I possibly could about the shooter in my office and even gather information if I could to help him get caught.
Not everyone wants to help out or take responsibility for things they may some involvement in and that's okay, but I'm not one of those kinds of people.