I work in the auto industry, and most of the guys i work with have that " im cool wise guy attitude " But thats just not me. Im 6'2 270 lbs and i dont have to try to have that whole tough guy / wise guy attitude. Basicly im a nice guy, and when people are talking i take interest. Here is my question, and let me know what you think. Can being NICE be mistaken as a sign of weakness????? I ask this because in relationships at work i kind of have the lower hand and get ripped on some times. Funny thing is with educated "normal people "i never have this trouble. Maybe its just if you want to deal with wise ass's you have to be a wise ass. Any ideas????