To the OP, I hope your question about HOW the Millie's liner lock is different from the other ones from $30 Kershaws and $10 Chinese knockoffs is answered. I haven't handled the Millie, but I don't think people usually "dis" a lock that comes on a +$100 knife. The liner lock is probably one of the cheapest locks to make (a backlock may be cheaper). So since it is on cheaper knives and this is a knife forum where we don't like cheap knives, then some of that bashing cheap knives gets turned into a bashing against liner locks.
I don't understand how the Millie's liner lock is the gold standard either, or how it's different from a lower-priced Kershaw, or a Buck liner lock. I WOULD understand if it were made of titanium, because it is lighter, stronger, and more expensive than steel, but it sounds like that it isn't. Perhaps it is all in the "smoothness" of feel in hand.
If your question was if liner locks are good locks, then yes, they are much better than no lock at all if you are going to stab something.
If your question was WHY the Spyderco Military's liner lock is better than others, then I don't know, I hope someone else can answer that.