Fautly engagement comes from a bend in the rocker which would cause the square end of the rocker to engage the blade slot at an angle instead of straight on...or it could be poor spring tension, sometimes the spring fatigues or the insert that holds the spring fatigues and does not maintain the spring at enough angle to put upwards pressure on the rear of the rocker which translates into downward pressure on the front of the rocker engaging the blade slot for a locked blade...or...both corners, the rocker face and the blade slot are worn and the corners have become ramps...and both blade and rocker need replacing.
Best way to lengthen the life span of a lock back, other then not pounding on it, is to make sure you fully disengage the rocker from the blade before pushing the blade into closed position. If you only partially disengage it, then feel the blade "breaking" that shared corner as you close it, you weaken the engagement potential every time that happens.
and finally...ditto to Joe's comment and lets get it fixed.