Sounds like I'm in the same boat as Baumr.
You can get a better knife at a better price from
http://mountainhollow.net than you can from me. And I tell my friends that. However, they still want one from me. I think there is an appeal to people, simply because they know the maker.
They don't want a great knife. They want a custom knife that they can tell friends "My buddy made this for me from scratch."
I've had enough requests to keep me busy all next year. I started at $100 and now charge $200 for a tricked out knife. One person wants a plain kitchen knife, so I'll probably just charge about $75. If my friend is well-to-do, then I quote $200 and use the best materials I can get my hands on. If their income is more 'common', then I lower the price and will quote them something with diamond wood.
I guess what I'm trying to say is, I want to do a favor for friends, have fun making it, and make enough money that my wife won't complain.
I'm gonna guess that the trouble comes when a maker runs out of friends and friends of friends. That's when pricing will be a problem. Then it's all based on marketing. Winning shows, making a name, trying to sell that 200th knife and all.
I'll bet the prices from the big boys have more to do with collectability than quality. For instance, there are probably some small makers that produce fantastic knives that sell for less than the same quality knife from a big name.
All that to say:
If you are selling to friends then pick a price where you both feel good about the deal. I tell them my costs and how much time I take. When I tell them I'm into a knife for $50 in materials and 20 hours of labor, they don't blink at $200.
If you are selling to the general public - you've got a real problem on your hands. When I was last at a knife show, one guy had a picture with a gun to his dog's head. The caption read, "If you don't buy a knife, the dog gets it."
Steve