thanks for the input guys.
Rock6...I looked at those suspenders they seem to be pretty nice. Did the Sabercat ride low enough to wear a normal assault pack sized bag at the same time?
Razorsdescent...she has a pack, but she doesn't enjoy going camping the same way I do. In order for her to have a good time she likes to have more gear. I don't carry more than 30 LBS in the condor II. The problem is that in order for her to enjoy the trip, which is essential to me being able to enjoy the trip, the extra gear would be too heavy for her, and tends to end up with me.
I actually tried to make her carry all of the stuff she wanted to have along, and it was miserable. I was perfectly happy with the cloths on my back, the gear in my pockets, a tarp, wool blanket, some oatmeal, and my cook set consisting of a guyote design water bottle and a cup that it slides into. I had her carry everything else she thought she would need. I tried to argue that she wouldn't even use most of it, but to no avail. It ended up with me having things strapped all over my bag, making for an awkward and heavy walk.
when i started thinking about doing this idea, I was considering how much stuff i ended up carrying that trip, and a bag about the size of the Sabercat seemed like it would be just right. The idea being that I can put the extra stuff in it if the need arises. I haven't told her this yet, but the purpose behind these trips is to slowly get her accustomed to not needing a bag larger than the Condor II or Sabercat. I am slowly going to teach her to be comfortable outside without bringing the kitchen sink along for the ride. Having two separate packs appeals to me because I hope that down the road I can just let her have one of them, but until then I can utilize my already established setup and just add the extra while its needed.
but yes i do agree that having more than 30 LBS is kind of a pain. I am just hoping it wont be a permanent one.