If you work in an office, I would go with a mnandi. If you must go with a sebenza, I would make sure its a decorated one. Women, ( no offense to anyone here ) do not always take kindly to knives, but if they see its a fancy wood version or a decorated, for some weird reason, it makes it easier. So the word "Sheople Friendly" born. I know with my own family, I once had a large night sky sebenza ( which was beautiful by the way ), and when I showed them and opened the blade they jumped back like I had a jedi light saber. I think most has to do with blade size.........I personally would go with the mnandi. They are extremely tough knives. I have one I have in the slip sheath in my tool box with all my paracord tying tools. It is razor sharp and has a nice thin blade for delicate cuts. I have used mine for everything that normal edc entails and it has never disappointed. If your allowed to carry a knife and are able to get a mnandi, go for it. You see them on the exchange all the time for aprox. $300 and sometimes, even less. So you dont have to go the $400 route for a nice one.