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randucci said:
You can't go wrong with diamonds! There must be thousands on a diamond sharpening stone for your Busse knives!!!
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I always get her jewelry. Not that she would complain with more though...LOL She likes art, so looking at some paintings right now.
 
KnifeAddictAK said:
So have her buy you new pads (That's just too funny to type out ROFL ) and rotors... still laughing about the pads :D LMAO... anyway. She cares about you and wants to help you out. Nothing to feel bad about. Through better or worse, she's there for you and be grateful yah ingrate :D ;)

Don't feel bad. If she wanted you for money, I think she would've been gone by now bro. You're blessed.
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It's that whole fluggin pride thing you know?...LOL
 
aaronjayl said:
It's that whole fluggin pride thing you know?...LOL
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Yeah, I know about pride. It caused me to almost starve to death. I put pride aside and took out hand outs and realized pride robs me of joys in life. ;) I would love to find a woman that made more than me and still loved me for me. She knows that (Atleast I am getting this notion) you are a good man and care for her and her child. That is more important than your income level and since uncle sam gave her some extra money, she wants to share that blessing with the one man in her life. :)

I'll shut up now. I tend to give input without being asked. :foot: I guess my new attitude in life is wanting me to help others that haven't asked :o
 
I'm a Libra. I always like to hear everyone's opinions, good or bad. She actually makes less than I do. Just at tax time she gets a bigger refund. I do appreciate her wanting to do that stuff for me but, I would see her do somehing for herself with the money. Or, be practical... Pay some of her bills off or get her car fully tuned up. Another part of it is that her ex is a POS and she pretty much supported him andnever did anything for herself. Kind of makes me all he more determined for her NOT to do anything for me. Sorry, atr this point I'm catching one and rambling.... :o
 
aaronjayl said:
I'm a Libra. I always like to hear everyone's opinions, good or bad. She actually makes less than I do. Just at tax time she gets a bigger refund. I do appreciate her wanting to do that stuff for me but, I would see her do somehing for herself with the money. Or, be practical... Pay some of her bills off or get her car fully tuned up. Another part of it is that her ex is a POS and she pretty much supported him and never did anything for herself. Kind of makes me all he more determined for her NOT to do anything for me. Sorry, atr this point I'm catching one and rambling.... :o
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Alright, here comes my cracker jack box degree in psycho-ology comes into play on this matter. I recall you saying that she and her mom went shopping, no? So she did something nice for herself and also bought you some clothes. You want her to pay off some bills, then help her figure out what bills would be best to pay off first.

Now on to the dilemma of the ex boyfriend. She did a lot, if not everything for him. But now, you are trying create the exact opposite of that. She may not comprehend that you are doing this out of love, where as in her mind, it may come across as you don't appreciate her as much or are upset by her financial gain. Granted, I may be off, but women are emotional creatures and can create these notions.

Rather than be the opposite of her ex, meet on the mid ground. Let her do some nice things for you, but also, help convince her to pay off her own bills. It sounds like she has a servants heart, which is a great thing, meaning she puts others first out of love. This may give her joy, but you may need to help her take time for herself and to take care of herself as well. If you do a 180 from her prior relationship, you may confuse or upset her. Find that medium and suggest that maybe you two could go get her car tuned up and get some lunch. Then while at lunch, subtly suggest that she pay off some bills as it would make you feel better knowing that she has less debt and stress to worry about.

That you care about her health and are grateful for the offer on the SHBM, but would be happier knowing she has a less of a burden on her shoulders.

The above is by Dr. KAAK who has no certification, no wife or g/f and is merely posting from observations made based on other relationships of those around him. It may help or may not, regardless, self proclaimed Dr. KAAK is not to be held liable for any positive or negative outcome. :)
 
Dr. Phil look out!...LOL I do appreciate a good voice of reason KAAK ;) Our relationship is an odd one but, for some reason works perfectly for us. We're both stubborn to a fault too...LOL We would both do anything for the other but, hate having the other do anything for us. So while her ex does make me be this way a little more, we are both like this already and well aware of it in eachother. You knows what's weird? We were talking about his earlier. It will be two year together and in that time, not a single fight. Not a one :eek:
 
aaronjayl said:
It will be two year together and in that time, not a single fight. Not a one :eek:
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Okay, speaking from the flesh, which I shouldn't be typing... nevermind. I shouldn't speak like that and withhold my comment. :foot:

But to give a hint, it's similar to the scene in American History X when they are folding sheets and he tells Norton Jr. to have her leave floating, cause it ain't like on the outside when you fight :D :o
 
;) :thumbup: Did you know that Budwieser bought Rollin Rock?
Amy-0 said:
Rolling Rocks.....................Latrobe, PA..........................Stabber............................................................



YOU ROCK
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ROTFL... NO worries there Bryan. In the wrods of Chris Rock "If it ain't new, you're through." We regularly... ahhh... mix it up and try new things. ;)
 
aaronjayl said:
ROTFL... NO worries there Bryan. In the wrods of Chris Rock "If it ain't new, you're through." We regularly... ahhh... mix it up and try new things. ;)
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Roleplay helps... She sits on the couch drinking beer, scratching and shouting at you in between commercials while you do the dishes sobbing. :D
 
KnifeAddictAK said:
Roleplay helps... She sits on the couch drinking beer, scratching and shouting at you in between commercials while you do the dishes sobbing. :D
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Thought you knew why wimmin wear white when they get married.


So that the new dishwasher matches the stove and refrigerator. :foot:
 
BWHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.... That is hilarious. :D On both counts.

With that, I am going to go pass out laughing hard. :D :thumbup:
 
El_Toro said:
Man I forgot all about that band! Brings back some fond memories of going out cruising on Friday nights during my senior year of high school. Used to have a few of their CD's, but they mysteriously disappeared a few years back when I let a friend borrow them, LOL. I think I'll go to my local Rasputin's manana and pick one ore two up.:thumbup:
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I totally feel you on the fond memories. They bring back memories for me too, I think that's why I like them so much. I'm kind of a wierdo, I just had a Pavarotti track pop into my mix, I've just moved from the old vinyl to "static age" which I have on ITUNES. I'd suggest getting the boxed set for $35 on ebay, it's got everything they ever recorded. If you want, I'll send you a burn of "Static Age". It's a solid album. Must have. It's the only Misfits album of which I have a burn lying around. The rest is on vinyl or my IPOD. I have to get new burning software so I can make more copies. There's something wiggy about mine. I've got a trial version of NERO that came with my computer. If you want that copy just re-send your address. I'll get it out to you. Bad Religion might be of interest to you also. They're kind of like punk with a PHD ;)

-Paul
 
Mulder said:
Thought you knew why wimmin wear white when they get married.


So that the new dishwasher matches the stove and refrigerator. :foot:
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ROTFL.... Hadn't heard that one. I always liked "Why are women's feet smaller than men's? So they can stand closer to the sink." :D
 
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