Movies to watch with a gal?

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I've been dating a girl for a few months now and from time to time relaxing and watching a movie seems like a better idea than going out someplace. There are a couple problems with this... I'm a guy, I like guy movies. She's a chick, she likes chick flicks. I need suggestions for movies that don't fit either of those categories, and would be good to watch with a girl.

One MAJOR stipulation here though, the movie cannot at any point contain the phrase "God d***" or she will refuse to watch the rest of the movie. Other foul language or anything else some may find offensive is ok, but that phrase cannot be in the movie.

Any suggestions would be great!
 
Something with "Muppets" in the title.

Seriously, the language will probably eliminate even mose PG movies.
 
Are you sure that she likes chick flicks? There are women out there who don't watch them, I married one. :)

As far as language goes it's hard not to find this even on Movies seen on TV.

Maybe classic Movies is what you should look into.

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yeah,old Bogart flicks are good.Maltese falcon,Casablanca ect ect.

Paint your wagon.Lee Marvin,Clint Eastwood good times.

Try anything set in olden times when people still respected manners in speech.
 
I go along with the "classics" idea. Philadelphia Story. To Have and Have Not. Bringing up Baby. And I can practically guarantee you'll like them too (if you haven't seen them). More recently there's always Wall-E, which I thought was great!
Good luck.
 
Are you sure that she likes chick flicks? There are women out there who don't watch them, I married one. :)

I'm sure. She does however LOVES guns & likes knives, so I'd say she's still a keeper :D

It is hard to find movies without that particular phrase in them, maybe classic movies are the way to go. So far "Secondhand Lions" is the best movie we've watched without this in it and that one's pretty recent, so there is at least some home... just wish I had a really good way to check before sitting down and watching a movie only to stop part of the way through.

For anybody else with the same or a similar situation (finding movies without certain content) I have found www.pluggedinonline.com and www.screenit.com to be helpful on many movies, but they can be pretty vague at times. I think they're meant mostly for parents so "poor language" may be descriptive enough for many.
 
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I'll expand on my response by saying most PG and PG-13 movies that were made since the 70's.

If she likes knives, I'd say classics swashbucklers like "The Adventures of Robin Hood" and "Captain Blood." Great sword work
 
I am not sure about the G D part, I 100% agree with the gf, I would rather hear any thing else than that. One movie to check out is, "Must Love Dogs." It was a great flick and I laughed up a storm. That movie cheered me up when I thought I was losing custody of my kids, which was a dark time for me. However, you will have to GD proof that one, but highly recommended.
 
There's always silent movies. Some of them are pretty cool. Foreign films might work too, it seems sometimes that they change up the subtitles to make them a little more friendly.

Alot of Bond movies are pretty clean language wise too, at least the older ones.

Here's a database of movie scripts, use ctrl-f for "god" and you should be able to know rather quickly whether or not a movie is safe
http://www.script-o-rama.com/oldindex.shtml


The World is Not Enough is clean, as is Casino Royale, Thunderball, Octopussy has a "for God's sake", Goldeneye clean, Goldfinger clean, License to Kill does have a GD, Russia with love is clean, Man with the golden gun has a GD, On Her Majesty's SS is clean, Seems to me most of the Bond movies are a safe choice.

I was also just kinda wondering about how she felt about Jesus F'ing C? Is this acceptable but GD is not?
 
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Wall-E, The Incredibles, Cars

Possibly The Notebook but there is nudity and alcohol and swearing so might not make it in.

You might look into something called a ClearPlay DVD player. I've never used it or known anyone that had it so I can't personally vouch for it but it is supposed to work and it looks like there are a bunch of movies. Don't know how easy it is to get updates or anything else so try to find some third party reviews to see if it is worth your while.
 
Young Frankenstein. Toy Story & Toy Story II. LOTR series. Firefly series. Serenity. I don't recall any cussing in Hellboy I & II. Maybe the MIB movies.
 
Suna no onna AKA Woman in the Dunes is the greatest makeout movie known to me.

1964 B/W Japanese art movie classic by director Hiroshi Teshigahara, from a novel and screenplay by Kobo Abe, with a super sound score by Toru Takemitsu. An amateur entomologist (callow young man) is searching for rare beetles in sand dune country in rural Japan. Weird villagers trick him, and he wakes up caught at the bottom of a giant antlion pit with a local lass who needs him to help shovel sand and improve her morale. He tries in vain to escape. Eventually he realizes he has nothing in Tokyo to go back for and something going for him in the dunes. The something is the best erotic scenes I recall in movies. It is not pornography, it is great art and far more stimulating. No body parts shown that you wouldn't see at the beach in 1964.

Woman in the Dunes is part of a three DVD Hiroshi Teshigahara collection that costs $50 at Amazon. If you just want it for a date, get it from Netflix. If you still have a VHS player, VHS tapes can be had for cheap on eBay and the Amazon Marketplace.

Bad language? Maybe if you know Japanese. Bad language rarely makes it into subtitles.

If this is too explicit, try In the Mood for Love. Here's the blurb from Amazon:

Hong Kong, 1962: Chow Mo-wan and Su Li-zhen move into neighboring apartments on the same day. Their encounters are polite and formal-until a discovery about their respective spouses sparks an intimate bond. At once delicately mannered and visually stunning, Wong Kar-wai's In the Mood for Love is a masterful evocation of romantic longing and fleeting moments in time.

The hero and heroine have something in common: both their spouses are overseas for career reasons, and both are cheating rats. Discovering their mutual secret by accident, they begin meeting after work for coffee and mutual support. They are honorable and inhibited and no good at asserting themselves, so they invent a little role playing game: one pretends to be the cheating spouse, and the other tries to be more self-assertive. They learn a lot about each other and fall hopelessly in love, but they're too honorable and inhibited to act on their feelings. You'll be kicking the sofa with your heels and mentally shouting "Come on guys, do something! Even if it's just a quickie!

Really good and easier to rent.
 
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There's several websites that review movies and rate them for how "Christian friendly" they are. Of course, you'll have to look deeply into why a movie might not be rated "Christian friendly", because there's many reasons why a movie might be considered "offensive" to certain people.

For example, the Harry Potter or Pirates of the Caribbean series would get a poor ratings from them because of their supernatural nature (magic, witchcraft, ghosts, clairvoyance, raising the dead, etc), but don't contain "taking the Lord's name in vain".

But when a movie does, it'll probably be listed in the review; I've seen reviews that have tallies of such things.

I can't really make specific recommendations for movies to watch, since such phrases slip through my ears as easily as they slip off of my own tongue, but as mentioned above, classic movies are a good way to go because they had different standards back then. I don't think there are specific MPAA criteria regarding such phrases, so ratings are hard to use as a judge (although anything PG will probably be fine).
 
Try "Streets of Fire"
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Kinda like a musical with shooting and brawling.
 
I suggest older mysteries and film noir, even old television shows can be good. Hitchcock, Bogart, Twilight Zone.

For newer films with no g-d- bad language, maybe stick to science fiction / fantasy. Star Wars, Lord of the Rings...

Kids shows don't always suck. Robots and Wall-y were ok, Cars was good. Monster House was all right. The Tim Burton animated movies are always good - Corpse Bride and Nightmare Before Christmas.

These are all movies that I found watchable, and Wife likes too.
 
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