That is why I was glad that I could make it home before my Grandfather died. I thank the Lord that I could be with him at his passing. I think it always hurts to lose the ones so dear to us but, we can try to make sure they are not alone.
Try to have as much quality time with her as you can and, try to remember the good times you've had with her. I don't really think that we can truly prepare fore when they go even though we know the time is coming. May the Lord be with you and give all your family strength.