I can't seem to follow what you are saying. Cutting free hanging newspaper can be done with an edge sharpened on double digit grit abrasive or a file, and is kinda far from a 4K edge followed by a strop which is able to shave and split hair. That level is also around the 0.3-0.4 micron edge radius of a metal scalpel. As well, the silicates in a leather strop will be as fine/finer than a 50K stone. I'm not sure where you are saying to stop. When is sharpness a short-lived luxury, and when is it sharp enough to properly cut fuzzsticks (which I do by push cutting, not slicing)?
I'm just trying to say that there is a level of extremism to sharpening (especially among enthusiasts) which has few practical applications, since that type of sharpness doesn't last very long. One can spend hours of sharpening and honing that "perfect edge", only to take that sharpness down after cutting a few sticks in the woods. I didn't plan on writing an essay, so I can understand that I seem a bit fuzzy.
An edge which will be used a lot needs to be sharpened a lot, so spending hours after hours on sharpening something that'll last a few rounds at the hands of a real user, doesn't seem necessary to me. Edges like that are better suited for aficionados who don't really need to use them. I mean, give me any knife that'll whittle hair and I'll get it to not whittle hair (or even shave) within a minute or two by normally carving up some wood.
I personally spend a lot of time honing all of my blades to a scary sharpness because I like to — but it's not necessary for the blades' intended use, since they will sort of default to a regular type of sharpness (non-hair whittling, yet still very sharp) quite soon. Does that make sense?
I don't have a problem with understanding my "scary sharp" blade won't remain that way after use. For me it's just acknowledging it's sharp and has reached the "practical limit" of sharpness. Since I am stilling learning to perfect the techniques I'm using, I somtimes feel if I were just alot better at this I could get the edge sharper? For me, I still think there is a confidence factor in there somewhere screwing things up.
I feel you man and I too want to take it to the next level. It is rewarding to achieve things.