I think you need to read those threads a little better pal. You don't notice the same few bugs flying around these threads ? I agree I need some help w my self control . I am new to bf and I thoroughly appreciate being here. I also am a passionate and loyal person and I can tend to be a bit out spoken. As far as you giving me guidance on how to be a grown up no thx bjt i appreciate the offer. Now I'd like to get back to talking about knives like we were until you brought this issue up again .I agree, after reading many threads so far the last few days. If the OP needs a little help with self control I would be more than happy to provide some guidance and mentorship on how to behave like a grown up, rather than a petulant child. Just putting that out there.