Okay, thank you bud. To anyone who actually gets this far in this mess of a post.. the website in question is "ontario-knife-store.com". I ordered a knife a few days ago that said it was available for order. I then received an email telling me that it is backordered. I immediately replied to that email asking if they could refund me so I could order it from a different site, or if they could at least prioritize my order when the item arrives or upgrade my shipping.. that was 2 and a half days ago, and I still havn't received a response. I'm not trying to rag on a site, I'm just trying to inform someone if they are thinking of ordering from ontario knife store.
UPDATE!!
As I was writing this response, I received an email offering to refund my money. Had I received that offer 2 and a half days ago, I would have taken it and just ordered the knife from chestnutridge, which states they have 6 in stock. At this point, I just feel like I might as well stick it out and hope I get the knife by next week. But the email was very nice, polite and professional. She said she would try to see what they could do about re-wording the "available" part, as to not confuse future buyers. I feel bad for my first post, where I implied that they might be shady.. based off of the email, they seem to be very professional and customer oriented. I will post any updates, just in case someone actually cares =P
Thank you Esav, for helping me learn how to use this forum productively. I will continue to get better at this!