How about this? "Treat others how you yourself want to be treated."
Don't bitch about how someone does a contest. If you are snarking someone, make it clear with a "j/k" somewhere in there. If someone has a chip on their shoulder, take it to PM and work it out. I've noticed a few things here and there around here recently that point to some tense feelings for one reason or another. This is still the best, nicest home on the web...one reason I spend so much time here. Just be cool, and this place will be cool.
if someone has a contest signup thread, you either take a silent pass, or you signup, and play. that's about it. if there's a discussion thread, try to stay on topic of the contest. ask good questions, if something is not clear. joking around and derailing? depends on the nature of that discussion, one supposes, but making it the snark++ thread? probably best left to offtopic/snark areas.
cleanups will occur as needed, without warning, or notice. if someone offends enough, there will be notice - but not in the thread. we'd like to keep those tidy. eventually, perhaps infractions to get your attention though we (i) would like to avoid those as your mellow mellow laid back mod has other things to do.
people have been really good about not posting linkies to things, but other rules (base forum rules, not even our local customs) are being flaunted. comes and goes. hopefully, they go without much more work
i wish the BF subscription icons had not been disabled. makes modding a lot harder, so more things are slipping through (have i read this thread? caught up on it? subscribed to it?)... some other things could make it easier too

like not having a job. oiy
but we'll notice. eventually.
play nice, it's Ethan's House
