Thank you. Words of wisdom. I think part of it too is I am still pretty new to sharpening. I am honestly pretty shocked by the level I have been able to achieve in just a few months. That's been fun, but that's part of the problem too though. I am still exploring the boundaries of what is possible and what I'm capable of. So it's harder for me to set a knife down knowing that it's as sharp as I can get it. I mean, maybe I can get it a little sharper right?? Hehehe. A couple of times (like last night) I've thought that and ended up dulling a perfectly good edge. I have always been able to bring them back to life and get them sharper than ever though. Part of the process of discovery I guess.
Btw, with a fresh mind and a cup of coffee I just spent another 5-10 minutes very carefully finishing the edge on the fine sm rods. The cts-204p paramilitary is now as sharp as it has ever been. Of course I still believe I can get it just a little sharper. Hehehehehehe
Part of the issue, at least with me, was having a mindset that says every edge must reach some lofty level of refinement - sharper - or at least as sharp as this other knife over here. I went through a period of rediscovery where I began cut testing all my edges on a variety of materials as I went through a progression, and realized "sharp" is an elusive quality to really define without knowing what the intended role is of a given tool. As I began to tailor my edges, the whole process took on a different character. But, one needs to know how to make the edge they're shooting for, on the steel they're working on, with the cutting profile of the tool they're working on, and have a reasonable expectation of performance and the effort involved. I fear you will have a few more of those marathon sessions in your future, of tinkering and noodling an edge nearly to death and back again

At some point, when things aren't working out the way you expect, it will have happened so many other times you'll know what the issue is right off the bat.
My current mindset is that edges can be coarse, medium, or fine, and can be pushed a bit one way or the other along this scale depending on the specifics of the tool in question (steel type, edge profile). As long as they function acceptably within the range of what I expect from an edge at whatever level I'm shooting for, all is good.
It helps to have a consistent testing protocol, trying to figure out why a given knife cannot perform the same as another edge on one test, but performs the same on another, maybe, on this go-around, but when tested just a few minutes ago it seemed to behave a bit differently, must be time for a new testing media....you will loose your mind
That's why I go with the three finger sticky and how does it cut newsprint? If I put in extra effort I might pull a hair from my head, or roll up a pant leg to check tree-topping ability, but with enough practice you can almost tell if you're there just from the 3 finger and newspaper. In all reality you can get a real good notion of what an edge is good for with just a three finger test and close visual inspection.