beezwax
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This was my sense as well, it's just like having a friend visit from out of town. You make time to show them the sights and share a bit of where you call home, but in this case the friends are catching glimpses through the Porch windowMerle has gotten me out and about a bit more than the usual work and rush home for the second job running around with the kids...

Very sorry to hear of the loss of your sister-in-law, but I'm glad that your wife was able to have this time with her at the end. And I appreciate your thoughts and perspective on this communal experience. The way that a pocket knife can "mark time" is some of what I was chewing on when I was ruminating earlier on the "life" of objects. Passing through your hands at exactly this time for your family has become part of Merle's story, something that we are all sharing in.I've carried a pocket knife since I was very young and now reflecting back they do more than just cut, they mark time in a way, I can look at a certain knife and recall a specific day or occasion. Merle's travels will create these memories as well....