Its almost uncanny how they are able to deflect any hint of wrongdoing or irresponsible manipulation....what scares me is how they are able to bring in some other guy to do their dirty work and how the nicest and sweetest looking of them are often the ones that cause the biggest, dirtiest scandals....but I suppose I am just incriminating myself as a bitter, single guy who's not getting any if I just wrote down what I wrote down....ah, hell, I'm going to party tonight and no one is gonna bring me down.
Federico said:Reminds me of when I first moved to the Twin Cities. I asked a girl out, we had a date, things seemed ok, she said she wanted to hook up again that weekend, but I couldnt make it. Left a message on her machine saying Im sorry couldnt get together that weekend, Id give her a call when I got back that week. When I got back gave her a call, got the machine again, left a message asking if she wanted to do something. After not hearing from her for a while, a couple days later I called again, again machine, so I left a message asking if things were alright and what was going on since she had asked me to call her and I hadnt heard from her in a while (our first date was set up after a round of phone tag so I had figured things were still ok). Well lo and behold later that night, I get an angry call by some guy saying I was terrorizing her, and that if I didnt stop calling they would call the police to arrest me for stalking her. A whopping three phone calls, over a period of one week, when she had asked for me to call her in the first place, and suddenly she is calling me an evil stalker. Suffice it to say, I was rather disturbed. Why ask me to call if you arent interested in ever talking again? Why not simply tell me you aint interested, why resort to some strong arm tactic? Etc... Well same story as you, got into all this wierd is it me crap, and well one thing I did realize, after a bit of thought. Iffen it feel wierd, and you cant figure out whats wrong, good chances it aint you.