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There are 3 sides to the story....his side, my side, and the truth.
The truth is the truth. My perseption of the truth will be tainted by what I"ve lived through, and what my mind is thinking at the time. This is where communication comes in. Nothing will change the truth, but often what I think is the truth can be changed by producing more facts and explaining what has been said or done.
Most often, our beliefs are based on trust, can i trust someone or something. If in the past I have been hurt by someone or something it will be harder to trust that person or thing no matter what the truth is and no matter who presents the information. So here lies the dilemna, do I trust you and do I trust what you are doing. Can I forget the past and go on with living, or will the past always be there tainting my perception of the truth??
The truth is the truth. My perseption of the truth will be tainted by what I"ve lived through, and what my mind is thinking at the time. This is where communication comes in. Nothing will change the truth, but often what I think is the truth can be changed by producing more facts and explaining what has been said or done.
Most often, our beliefs are based on trust, can i trust someone or something. If in the past I have been hurt by someone or something it will be harder to trust that person or thing no matter what the truth is and no matter who presents the information. So here lies the dilemna, do I trust you and do I trust what you are doing. Can I forget the past and go on with living, or will the past always be there tainting my perception of the truth??