Out of town for three weeks on work and come back to an empty house

MBWirenut

MBWirenut

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Looks like the wife and kids packed up everything and moved out while I was gone. The computer and the chair here are the only things besides a few odds and ends.

This really sucks, I have no idea what to do now.:( :thumbdn:
 
That's heavy. Check the bank accounts. That will give you a handle on the situation. Good luck.
 
Wow, was this a total surprise? Call the police AND a lawyer!

...also feel free to vent to all of us as much as you want... we will try to be here for you!
 
Man, I'm so sorry to hear that. I'm really praying for you and the whole situation. Don't give up hope.

If you need anything, I'm pretty close and could be there fairly quick -- if there's anything I could do to help... I'd do it in a heartbeat.
 
WOW... sorry to hear that!!! She should have at least talked to you about things forst... IMHO.

Vent away man!!!
 
she answered her cell phone said we would talk after she got off of work. I feel sick to my stomach. I have no idea what to do now. Feel kinda like throwing a match in here and letting it burn. Blows my mind, we really don't ever even argue, just over the last 4-6 months been feeling like a roommate type of feeling. I thought it was because I was workinh so much and she started finally working.

I just don't know.
 
Holy crap, that sucks man! :(

Similiar thing happened to one of my friends. We attended a Mercruiser training school in Dallas one year, got back home afterwards to find that his wife split with the kids and had taken EVERYTHING out of the house, wipe out the bank accounts, and she was even mean enough to have all the utilities shut off while he was out of town. :thumbdn:

Try to keep your head on straight and stay strong brother, check the bank accounts and get a lawyer if needed.

My wife and I will keep you in our prayers, hope things work out as good as possible for you.


-Ed
 
You are in our thoughts and prayers. . . . We hope all turns out for the best. . .

Jerry and crew. . .
 
All I can tell you is that until you talk... your mind will race and dart around searching for answer as to WHY. Try not to... it will affect your conversation when you actually do talk... only she has the answer. This seems to have come out of the blue for you, so the possibiliteis of why are endless... let her tell you. Until then... I'd check the accounts like recommended... but more importantly... Think about what YOU WANT.
 
MBWirenut said:
she answered her cell phone said we would talk after she got off of work. I feel sick to my stomach. I have no idea what to do now. Feel kinda like throwing a match in here and letting it burn. Blows my mind, we really don't ever even argue, just over the last 4-6 months been feeling like a roommate type of feeling. I thought it was because I was workinh so much and she started finally working.

I just don't know.
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Nah, dont think that way brother, that wont accomplish anything.

I'm sure it feels like the end of the world for you, but it isnt. Life for you will go on whether you work things out with your wife or you move on with your seperate ways. Remember, you'll always have your kids regardless of what happens.

Meanwhile, you have a great group of guys/gals here to help in any way they can! Keep your head up, talk to her and see what can be worked out.


-Ed
 
I'm sorry to hear that! I hope everything turns out ok!
 
You are definitely not alone.

As others have said, vent all you want -- here. It's safe and you need to get the anger out. It'll help you keep your head straight when you talk to her...

Got my whole crew wishing you luck and sending up prayers.
 
My condolances, that sucks.

The same thing happened to me back in June, came back from my vacation early to see the moving van pulling away from my house.

Hope things work out for you !!
 
What the hell? Did the two of you have any conversations on the phone during the three weeks you were gone?

Sorry to hear it.

Cancel all credit cards!!!

My mom did that to my dad, too, when I was 13. I was one of the ones who was gone when he got home. I ended up 2000 miles away, and didn't see him for 4 years. Wasn't his fault, and you shouldn't fault yourself either. It's a two way street...

Good news is she left you the computer so you could vent to a group of folks who know what's up! :thumbup:
 
Bank stuff is okay, not a whole lot there anyway, guess that I will terminate my auto payroll deposit and open another account. On my way to wal-mart to get some stuff. Still too shocked to even shed a tear.

On top of all of this, I forgot to mention, a good female freind of mine in San Antonio was in a head on collision just after dropping her 4 YO daughter off, two weeks ago monday. She has a fractured skull and c1,c2 vertebrae and still is not breathing on her own, nor out of a coma. They say she has shearing in her brain which means that nerves have ripped and severed, don't know what damage yet. yesterday they took her off of the sedative that they have her on and she was moving her body and arms and legs and squeezing hands, I hope she is alright too.

So guess my sitution could certainly be worse, least I have my relative health.
 
Please do not go down a destructive path... this is THE time to take care of yourself. Take it easy, spend all your free time with friends.

Prayers sent!
 
Hang in there. Like everyone else said, we're here if you want to vent.

Wish there was something I could do. I might be able to get you in touch with a family law professor at my law school if you're interested -- only problem is he'd be out of state for you, but he still might be able to give you some advice on where to find a good attorney down that way.
 
Damn MB. I'm sorry to hear this. My thoughts are with you. Hopefully everything works out for the best with you and your family, whichever way that may be.

Aaron
 
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