Out of town for three weeks on work and come back to an empty house

Mark, we are here for you brother. Don't get too worked up until you to talk....even then don't get worked up.... a good talk will lead to many answers. And if it is not meant to be...I have a single sister!
 
Prayers are with you brother. I had a similar thing happen a few years back. I would suggest cancelling credit cards, open another account only in your name and getting a lawyer. Good luck and God Bless.
 
Mark, very sorry to hear this, i will be praying for you.....i replied to your email before i saw this, take as much time as you need on both accounts. I really hope everything works out for you.
 
Geeze man thats harsh. I really hope it all works out for you man. These situations are always very hard at the start, just hang in there. Good luck..
 
You need any help from just north of the border let me know.

I have a buddy that just became single, and he is living high on the hog. So no matter what happens, ther CAN be a silver lining, you just need to look for it!
 
patrickcudd said:
I have a buddy that just became single, and he is living high on the hog. So no matter what happens, ther CAN be a silver lining, you just need to look for it!
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It would be best to work it out for the kids. But I have to agree that there can be a sliver lining.
 
Hey Amy-0 here......

First of all PLEASE VENT AWAY.........That is why we are all here....I am sending you a very BIG HUG FROM OHIO!!!!!!! I have looked at all the posts and all AWESOME replies.....Anything that I can do just let me know....but as a women I have to say this....We are emotional creatures and we sometimes go to EXTREME.....(C'mon you all know it) but what she did is WRONG...and I talked to a lawyer tonight (my good friend) and by law she can not do that...........My advice... try to stay calm....(I know that is sooooo hard) but keep with us or call a good friend that can come over to your house do NOT hurt your house or anything else in it (Yourself is most Important).......and most important know this....WE ALL ARE FEELING YOUR PAIN AND WE ARE HERE FOR YOU!!!!

kisses and hugs..........and prayers....
Amy
 
Thanks to you all, I really apprciate the kind words. It is going to be a tough time, but I think I will pull through. Just going to be rough for a while, till I get some things and get home life back to a some what normal state.

Hell at least she left my dog, RIGHT?
 
MBWirenut said:
Thanks to you all, I really apprciate the kind words. It is going to be a tough time, but I think I will pull through. Just going to be rough for a while, till I get some things and get home life back to a some what normal state.

Hell at least she left my dog, RIGHT?
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Did she at least leave your blades?

Good luck with this. Know that many of us will keep you in our prayers.
 
MBWirenut said:
Thanks to you all, I really apprciate the kind words. It is going to be a tough time, but I think I will pull through. Just going to be rough for a while, till I get some things and get home life back to a some what normal state.

Hell at least she left my dog, RIGHT?
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if you need anything, pm me. i have tons of extra stuff in my house which my dad left when he moved to another house. furniture, linens, towel, whatever you may need, im sure i have extra.

mark
 
Hang tight and try your best not to let your emotions take over your mind when you're discussing things with her. Remember to take a deep breath from time to time when hashing things out.

All the best to you. The whole Busse Clan is here.
 
Same thing happened to me 15yrs 5 days ago. Got thru it with ALOT of help but my outlook changed. Be safe and know that you'll come out the other side a better man.
My prayers are with you.

Bob Mills
 
MBWirenut said:
Thanks to you all, I really apprciate the kind words. It is going to be a tough time, but I think I will pull through. Just going to be rough for a while, till I get some things and get home life back to a some what normal state.

Hell at least she left my dog, RIGHT?
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I am still here and everyone else.........Chin up my friend!!!! :) :)
 
Been there, had that done to me in 86, and my mom also did that to my dad in 72. It hurts! Some of the things I've learned through the processes:
-don't lose your temper, remain calm as much as possible, this will pay dividends down the road.
-prepare for the worst, just in case she decides to go for the throat.
-Cover your assets, don't forget tax, pension items,
-Watch out for some of your friends, found out one of my best buds knew about the bail out 4 months in advance and had helped set me up.
-And most important I found was to try and keep your sense of humor alive. No matter what life throws at you.
There is a light somewhere in that tunnel, it might take awhile to find it. Just make sure it isn't going "Choo Choo".

Last note, for the sake of the kids, be carefull so that they don't become pawns in a dangerous game . Mom did that to my sis & I, and it did some damage to my poor sis. Didn't make my life very nice either for a few years.

Hang in there amigo, keep it real.
 
Hang in there.

Keep a level head in any conversations. You still have your kids to think about.
 
Ok, I will tell you this, what you and her have been experiencing for the last 6 months is not unusuall. All relationships go through that. Everyone has their time. During this time the grass always appears greener on the other side to women. I went through a period where we were just coexisting. All women want a close relationship with lots of affection, men just want to eat, sleep, crap and have sex. Let's face it we are different and men that are sensitive and understanding are usually gay. The rest of us are pigs. Women think they can go find another man that will understand them, but they will just end up in the same place. And we (men, pigs, whatever) are lucky to have a woman that understands our selfish, self serving behavior, and lives with it and laughs at it.

I suggest you talk to her and try to work things out. Have her read this thread which shows her a part of you. Have her read your postings as well. Maybe she will understand you a bit better. also, have her send me your infi :thumbup:
 
Cobalt said:
Ok, I will tell you this, what you and her have been experiencing for the last 6 months is not unusuall. All relationships go through that. Everyone has their time. During this time the grass always appears greener on the other side to women. I went through a period where we were just coexisting. All women want a close relationship with lots of affection, men just want to eat, sleep, crap and have sex. Let's face it we are different and men that are sensitive and understanding are usually gay. The rest of us are pigs. Women think they can go find another man that will understand them, but they will just end up in the same place. And we (men, pigs, whatever) are lucky to have a woman that understands our selfish, self serving behavior, and lives with it and laughs at it.

I suggest you talk to her and try to work things out. Have her read this thread which shows her a part of you. Have her read your postings as well. Maybe she will understand you a bit better. also, have her send me your infi :thumbup:
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+1

But if she has ventured.....go out 5X times the same amount....if you are even close in age to me...things have changed...trust me on this
 
Even if I'm totally new here I kinda feel your pain.
I hope everything works out for the best.

God Bless.
 
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