Didn't expect this thread to gain so much popularity and I understand it's not easy to stay on topic but I'll give those who care my final thoughts on the knife.
I'm not a knife junkie or anything so my experience with folders is limited but from all the hype and attention this knife was getting I was expecting a lot more. I'm not going to judge (too much) Spyderco or the para just on this knife but honestly all those 10/10 reviews are misleading. Not in a sense where this knife isn't a good knife but rather because they fail to mention all the little annoying things and while this may be a great Edc knife it is not the ultimate perfection 10/10 as they claim it to be.
I love taking things apart and getting to know what goes on inside and for that reason I don't agree with those who said I should have sent it in immediately. I mean the whole idea behind being a "man" and carrying a tool is that you are somewhat handy, otherwise you might as well put it up on a display and go brag to your friends about how your knife has s30v steel and cool g10 scales. The quality control should be up to the manufacturer, not the customer. Of course final inspection is up to the end user but for a defect like mine, and I suspect others', to go unnoticed on their end, is not fair.*
Why should I pay more money and wait longer for something that is not my fault. I don't understand why some of you are so accepting of this procedure. It's as if you're getting compensated for all your troubles.
Someone on here asked me to keep them updated with the W/R Dept. responses. I already posted the reply I got through email on here but basically what I understood was, if you disassemble the knife you "could" mess it up. I really didn't think that something with 6 screws would be so delicate and intricate. Now from what someone else on here said about tolerances and it not being a space ship part, well I sure am fooled. I mean the guys at Spyderco seem so be the only ones competent enough to properly unscrew 6 screws on this mass produced tool.
I also got a call back from them today. The lady told me if they have to take it apart it'll be an extra $20, which would add up to $45 after shipping for me. For fifty bucks I could just buy another knife. They were pretty prompt with their emails and calls though. Although for a company with such a high reputation for their great knives I really think that whole mindset around void warranties and paying more for return shipping is Bs.
I did read all the suggestions on here and you guys were right about breaking it in. I could tell that over time this knife would get smoother. Ultimately though I spent enough time with it to know that I was not going to get both smooth deployment and no blade play into one package, one had to give. I don't want to sound like a baby but it's no fun when your index finger feels bruised after a couple of hours of disengaging.
In conclusion, I'm not very happy with this particular knife but I would still like to get my hands on a "10/10" para 2 someday, for now though I'll probably try out the Delica 4. Thanks for the help guys.