How do you tell someone they are prepping a little too much and it is coming at the expense of other things in their family's life that is falling apart. The response is always the same, eg: if the sh!t hits the fan then they will be right and their family will be in a better position therefore the hard decisions are justified and anything less is irresponsible. That's a hard argument to counter, all i can say is - dude your family is starting to fall apart because all your income and time is going into a theoretical. How do you get thru? Disclaimer this is not code for myself, I don't have a family to prep for and all my spare income goes into BS toys like another dang new knife.