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2 incidents.. One Thanksgiving I was at friends house and we had about 20 people around the table and I was asked to cut the turkey.. their knives didn't work.. So I finally pulled out my lazer sharp Para 2 and started cutting into that bird perfectly (I was pretty clueless while doing it because people thought of how clean that knife was).. it made some peoples stomachs turn about me using a pocket knife on the turkey everyone else would eat..Some kndly suggested I go back to the dull kitchen knives "meant for carving the turkey. ha ha!
The other happened just last week when a security guard escorted me to my car while I was in the hospital childrens cancer ward with a pocket knife (an Emerson horseman to be specific) ..They asked me to return the knife to my car and they followed me all the way to the car to make sure I left it in there before I retruned...even though I was in the hospital for the last 14 days/24hrs per day straight (My daughter has cancer and it is a "weapons free" zone). When I came back to my daughters room I saw that my mom left a steak knife for cutting bread that was twice as long as the Emerson. O MY GOSH NO!!!!!! I felt like calling security just to make them feel like jerks and then call security on all the other parents I saw in the unit with pocket knives, steak knives they brought from home. But of course I didn't. In a cancer ward you needs things to make your own food, your childs food (no child can stand eating hospital food while sick). One also has to wash clothes including doing your laundry while there and many other things ect.. parents don't leave their kids there alone while undergoing chemo..so it is like a sort of camping out. Hospital does not supply thigs for parents. Plus I am a single dad so the only one staying and taking care of my daughter while in there. So it feels weird having to rip through plastic with finger nails and do the hundreds of things I need a knife for while living there. I will nobody here understands this situation unless you went through this with a child yourself..One just does not leave the hospital and leave teir child there.. sometimes there are complications that cause longer stays. I was there for 3 weeks once and never left the hospital except to get food from the grocery store 1x.
You are an amazing father, Colubrid! I hope to one day be at least half the incredible father that you are! I hope your daughter gets better soon! My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.