I have used both EZE-LAP and DMT hones. I get far better results with DMT. As far as wearing out, if the hone doesn't seem to be cutting like it should, use abrasive cleanser and a nylon brush. Diamond hones load up just like any other. My small EZE-LAP is showing signs of wear though. DMT seems to have a more uniform grit, too. Hope this helps.
Paul
Paul