Thanks to all the helpful info. I've opened a new tab for each of your suggestions. I'll go look them over since you all took the time to suggest them. I do have that ESEE-3 on the way.
I"m just hoping for a blade that retains its edge longer than the BudK blade I have on my waist right now... thats all. I have found that if I hold the knife firmly at a given angle that I CAN get an edge using an 800 grit King stone.
I have also learned that when you haven't much feeling left in your fingers that holding the blade against the stone using your fingernails as the guide for a consistent blade angle is a bad idea. Who would have guessed that a stone meant to remove steel would also remove fingernails. I never thought about it, and never felt a thing, until I saw blood and decided to investigate. That was a couple months recovery waiting for the nails to grow out. And keeping them bandaged so the now horseshoe shaped fingernails didn't catch on everything or let dirt and such on the nail-bed. What a dope! But I did get my first decent edge from a stone sharpening, wish it would have lasted.
I then went searching for ACTUAL angle guides. I found they seldom have very good reviews. And some folks state those guides all suck and I shouldn't use even them. But I think I'll buy some guides anyway. And another finer stone while I'm at it.
I also tried an Edge Pro Sharpening system, but I dont have the physical ability to make that work well, nor room to set it up and leave it.
In any case, the ESEE-3 will be here tomorrow. and I do have plenty of dull knives to practice with before the ESEE will need touch up...hopefully. And I guess I'll go agaisnt all those haters of angle guide for sharpening and buy a set with two sizes.
Thanks again everyone!