The recon 1 and mini Recon 1 both feel good in hand imo.
Blade-wise, the mini is minimal small as I like to carry, regular is maximum as big as I prefer to carry in a folder, so for me, the code4 hits that sweet spot, unless you really want the g10 handles.
My #1 gripe with cold steel is I don't like the clips.
As for is it too big to edc, if you typically prefer "smaller" knives, opt for the mini. If you prefer Larger folders, opt for the regular 4".